Online Dating is a Nightmare...

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Not in a Holocaust, Hutus and Tutsis, Jonestown kinda way, but none the less who needs this shit after a long day.





Taste Test

I've been single a short time now, challenging for me to meet gals at the moment as I'm rather new to the area, live in suburbia and work from home. Trifecta of suck lol. Personally not concerned, as changes are in the works, but I have dived into the online dating world out of curiosity using only the free versions of Adult Friend Finder, Tinder and POF... and if it wasn't wasting my time it would be comical. Even if I were to pay for upgraded access, until you get to that face to face meeting its near impossible to build any real chemistry, even with a hot pics and few witty jokes. So the game within the game is getting to the actual meet up where real chemistry is decided.

Online dating for most guys in most locations in the USA is a waste of limited resources (time, energy, and money).

With online, you get to know somebody before you know whether attraction exists or not. When you get a number on the street, both people can INSTANTLY sense if a vibe is there or not.

Woman have too many options these days... Too many inflated sense of egos driven by a generation of autistic men who were raised on social media and know jack shit about communicating with someone via the phone or in-person. Woman have too many options now. IMO the influx of more and more thirsty men who have wrecked the sexual economics. With the increasing level of betas sending alternately supplicating and perverted messages, a lot of semi-decent women have rejected the online experience. And thus what makes normal approaching in real life that much more effective. No competition, women relieved that real men still exist, and that she is pretty enough to attract a confident man.

Pussy Power

They know you're thinking with your dick. Trickery comes in so many flavors...

I've been hit up for Amazon gift cards (most common request) (they want you to screenshot the code) also was asked for a FinishLine gift card, all based around 'please help pay my phone bill so I can keep talking to you', local escorts, help me with my USA visa (chick from AU), than there's the 'before we meet up' I need you to join the 'safe dating verification site' for free (it's not), join my cam show to show your serious and we can 'meet up' after, pay for missed work time (cams) so I can take off and spend with you (whore), a chick recently asked me to 'give her gas money' so I can get to you... these are the ones that I've encountered multiple times already. My newly formulated counter to all these requests are..."I'm a cash only guy", "Lets meet and you can take it from my pocket" or "I was just going to ask you for money".. I pretty much know when were at this point they are trash to me and honestly I like to get nasty aggressive before I delete 'em.

I've noticed the same red flags almost all the time now.. they're 'living with a relative', 'monies tight', they'll talk about 'love' and 'loyalty' in opening email, out of state cellphone number and they'll be 1000 miles away from you instead of the suppose 7. They tend to use broken English and stock photos of hotties.

Then there's the
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… These are the ones that message you, try to get you all hot lol. They are usually installed by the website to create interactions and get you to pay up... its obvious after awhile and most of the sites use them. About a month ago, I had a 20 minute conversation with a gal that eventually had me wanting to go to her cam show real quick.. passed on that, but hours later in the day came across another gal and she was using the same 'script', I was reading the same 'personalized' verbiage to the letter. Sucker games.

I haven't lost a penny during this learning curve, but once you give them money they'll all simply disappear.

So to combat these time wasting scammers early on, I've asked for them to please send me a screenshot with my name and their face in it... even then, their game doesn't stop.

For example... I'm talking with this chick and she sends me her picture...


In my head, I'm like 'yeah right'... so after crushing her with more humor, I hit her up with 'do us a favor and please send me a pic of you and my name saying 'Told ya Sean'.. 'so we can keep this awesome conversation going' or something... Gotta be careful here because some willnt get it and think you're insecure or have trust issues. I've already heard it.


Something like this...​

Found out she's in Michigan when her profile said Denver... she also didn't have a phone camera that worked, and that's she 'living with an uncle using his wifi' and asking me about my annual income and pay schedule… bleeding red flags.

I moved on, but the next day got this...


Yep, same girl. Checked that box. So I ended up talking with her on and off for a week and then it came to the …"can you help me pay off my phone bill? It's only $120". There it was... another one, wasting my fucking time. Shoulda known when they don't ask you much about YOU. Another early flag to remember. So I started treating her like a whore... sorry, but there's now nothing redeeming from all this now and 'she' wasted my time. So I toyed with 'her', offended her some and then deleted.

I can still hear her ask … "oh so you just got paid?!" and "Sean, please give me your bank account logins before I get late fees"... lol.

I've screenshot a few others to share...


This one wanted me to pay $240 to get her off of work so we could spend the evening together... her cell phone came back to Miami and she refused to acknowledge it.



This one wanted to meet up, but first I had to join her cam show and 'pay in' to show I gave a fuck about her livelihood.​




This bitch actually had me waiting for her in a bar... I looked good and ended up staying out that night so that worked.​



This one pounded me for days to meet up, but I first just, simply, only needed to join this "free"
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. She told me she could hit there app in an emergency they'd call 911. whaaaaa.. I eventually told her that she wasn't worth all this and that killed the mood. Those websites by the way will 'auto charge' AND sell your credit card.
Then last night, spent almost 2 hours talking to this chick only to get...

 

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A Game

"Well BF, maybe your game needs some work"... ALWAYS or you might as well
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. Online dating pics always need updated and shuffled, bios finessed, but I can't work my game, if they don't talk or they're ultimately only just after my credit card.

Over the last few weeks I've pretty much stopped logging in to places... I've gone from proactive to reactive and when I do get 'matched' email, and they do actually talk... I give them my phone number shortly into the conversation and move things from the email/IM world quicker... that usually weeds them out.

Seems my chances are better walking into a bar and meeting Ms. Right are better than doing so online. I've missed the online dating heyday and need to adjust accordingly. I'll be turning my hand more towards 'social gatherings' once I move into the city and the '
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' as well... these online dating apps should NOT replace face to face pick ups. They should augment them only.

Tell us about your online dating experiences...
 

Oliver Shagnasty

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I've banged three chicks I met on tinder and I'm dating the last one. Seems to be going well so far.
 

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Here's a tip ..its prehistoric I know but try going out ..mingling and talking ...I've been single for 2 years and have to beat the bitches back with a stick ...
 

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Don't be jealous ... I'd throw you a bone, even fat gurls need love
 

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I mentioned that 'face to face' is the way to go like 4 times.
This isn't a boo hoo BF thread, it's about the amount of online dating scammers and how they're doing it.
 

Oliver Shagnasty

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Yea I talked to a few that I could tell were scammers. Years ago I tried Zoosk and it WAS FULL of scammers.
 

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Yehhh I don't read much...jumped the gun, my bad, everyone's a scammer these days and they don't even care that you know they're a scammer lol Jeannies cool though, you should ask for her digits..
 

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This one is an obvious photoshop there’s tons of apps out there that you can use to superimpose pic on pic....that’s not a sticky note and clearly has been “ placed” there lol



Damn.......I don’t know about the other ladies here but I’d rather spend my life alone than waste my time with online dating sites......especially free ones.

I do wish you the best of luck.....this thread is the best I’ve read here anyway
 

Oliver Shagnasty

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This one is an obvious photoshop there’s tons of apps out there that you can use to superimpose pic on pic....that’s not a sticky note and clearly has been “ placed” there lol



Damn.......I don’t know about the other ladies here but I’d rather spend my life alone than waste my time with online dating sites......especially free ones.

I do wish you the best of luck.....this thread is the best I’ve read here anyway
Damn you're right Vixey I had to take a closer look and yes it's a major photo shop.
 

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and supposed 2 be a handwritten note but look how the 2 'A's match lol
 

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Dating sounds like a nightmare. If I ever end up getting divorced I’ll just stay single fuck it :LOL1:
 

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You never know in this life, you could pop out for milk and meet someone in the shop or something like that, but people don’t look at each other anymore, only fake pics on a phone, you could have your head stuck in that thing while the love of your life walks straight by you, with all this cardassian bollocks or what ever you call them, are people’s expectations too high, they prefer to dream about a fake pic rather than flirt face to face.
 

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Celibacy isn’t a bad way to go for a while. I rather enjoy sexy Latinas. Looks like rain later today.
 
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