I'm going to type slowly maybe you can keep up. There is no need to state the obvious nor to explain to other members that you're offended or upset by what they type, in fact that can be counterproductive especially on a message board where the primary goal of some, most or all of the members is to get under the skin of other members. You not only react strongly when people push your buttons, which seems to be extremely easy to do, but you go so far as to TELL them they succeeded in getting under your skin and you're bothered by it.
Are you trying some sort of previously unheard of and vastly unsuccessful self sympathy" troll?
Because if you are it's not working and if you're not, well I hate to be the one to break the news, but no one here is going to feel sorry for you.