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<blockquote data-quote="Lily" data-source="post: 827326" data-attributes="member: 1283"><p>I haven't thought about that phone call attempt in a while. I think Freud definitely has an out-sized ego and thinks he's God's gift to women. I suppose he wants to add notches to his e-belt. I've looked at his supposed pictures. He's not a bad looking man as I looked at it objectively. Unfortunately, I'd already had been exposed to him before I even met him. Thus, I no longer saw him based on his looks. My opinions are determined by the kind of person he is, one that I would never befriend; he's an asshole. He had posted bizarre troll attempts at this defunct site, one of several of the cindybins out there. So, not knowing me, never having met me, he was talking shit. WTF? Maybe this is a cultural thing, with me being Latin, but FAFO is there underneath the surface at anytime, anyplace.</p><p></p><p>At SG, he was sort of all over the place. I just exchanged posts online with him from a neutral space. Then the phone call request came across, in PM and publicly. My instinct told me he wasn't trustworthy. I declined the offer. Yeah, I guess he felt rejected. He's been a little bitch since then. He thinks that there was something wrong with me for not talking to someone from a troll forum. LOL...like I should put myself and my life out there for the guttersnipe of online humanity. I don't know what these clowns really want, beyond feeding their egos. Well, maybe personal information.</p><p></p><p>Now in a larger sense, I think most of my detractors, have all been men that I've rejected for social reasons, either their "friendship" or romantic interest. I have this reputation among these mental midgets for "suddenly" snapping and "turning on them". Well, I've never, before today actually, addressed this publicly. The reason I "snap" is that I've been "tolerating" most of them. Focusing on any good I can find in them...after all, even a broke clock is right twice a day. That is my nature, I tend to give the benefit of the doubt. Life has beat that out of me a bit, but that's still who I am at a fundamental level.</p><p></p><p>A day comes when I've had it. I'm fed up because they are basically one-trick pony dumbasses. Nothing that stimulates my intellect or positive feelings at all. It's dull, stupid and boring. Then I let them have it when they poke at me. They freak out.</p><p></p><p>Since I've been here, at BF, I've had several men sniff around. Jesus Christ, only one was a remote possibility...like super remote, in another place and time sort of thing. The rest have been nice men, but I have traveled that path before and it doesn't end well. Of those, two went badly and my profile as Lily was revealed. The other went apeshit when I wouldn't join forced with him against you. One went silent without any drama, and the other I still consider an e-friend. But that's a 50% batshit rate. By any measure, it's a fail.</p><p></p><p>The weirdest thing about this is that I have never approached a man first for flirtation or otherwise in 17 years of being on message boards or forums. I came to forums from Yahoo message boards where it was pure trolling as far as I could tell. Joined my first forum and eventually started with PMs from different men. I could be more flirtatious back then, but that got me nothing but trouble. There was a time when some of the guys told me that I wasn't as fun as I used to be. Being fun online has to be set within strict parameters, there are a lot of broken men out there. These rejects have no sense of scale. The whole online flirtation thing is fantasy from my point of view. Some of them took it so seriously.</p><p></p><p>Others thought that it was some God given right to poke at me with a stick constantly though they pretended to be "friends". Once I grabbed the stick away and shoved it up their asses, they felt rejected. Who knows why?</p><p></p><p> </p><p>Men are extremely fragile creatures. Emotionally, they're a mess. They are caught up in, gasp, I'll use that term, small dick energy. It's expressed of course in exaggerated amounts. The misogyny, the objectification of women, etc...is off the charts in the virtual anonymity of the web. So brave, yeah? lol And I will be honest, the women here that feed and stroke their egos, as women do all over the world, makes the problem worse. I have always said I'm online to have some laughs and occasional discussion like we're having. I'm not here to shop for a male. I don't think the good catches are hanging on forums, for whatever that's worth. Again, there are exceptions, but they are rare.</p><p></p><p>A real man should have self-confidence based on how self-realized he has become. I think what were dealing with here, are a shitload of men that aren't self-realized and they know it, it's right beneath the skin.</p><p></p><p>You can boil all that down to: there are some entitled clowns online that think that they are owed attention and energy from whatever woman they're interested in. Especially clowns like Freud who seems to want recognition from women but also the rep for talking to everyone.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lily, post: 827326, member: 1283"] I haven't thought about that phone call attempt in a while. I think Freud definitely has an out-sized ego and thinks he's God's gift to women. I suppose he wants to add notches to his e-belt. I've looked at his supposed pictures. He's not a bad looking man as I looked at it objectively. Unfortunately, I'd already had been exposed to him before I even met him. Thus, I no longer saw him based on his looks. My opinions are determined by the kind of person he is, one that I would never befriend; he's an asshole. He had posted bizarre troll attempts at this defunct site, one of several of the cindybins out there. So, not knowing me, never having met me, he was talking shit. WTF? Maybe this is a cultural thing, with me being Latin, but FAFO is there underneath the surface at anytime, anyplace. At SG, he was sort of all over the place. I just exchanged posts online with him from a neutral space. Then the phone call request came across, in PM and publicly. My instinct told me he wasn't trustworthy. I declined the offer. Yeah, I guess he felt rejected. He's been a little bitch since then. He thinks that there was something wrong with me for not talking to someone from a troll forum. LOL...like I should put myself and my life out there for the guttersnipe of online humanity. I don't know what these clowns really want, beyond feeding their egos. Well, maybe personal information. Now in a larger sense, I think most of my detractors, have all been men that I've rejected for social reasons, either their "friendship" or romantic interest. I have this reputation among these mental midgets for "suddenly" snapping and "turning on them". Well, I've never, before today actually, addressed this publicly. The reason I "snap" is that I've been "tolerating" most of them. Focusing on any good I can find in them...after all, even a broke clock is right twice a day. That is my nature, I tend to give the benefit of the doubt. Life has beat that out of me a bit, but that's still who I am at a fundamental level. A day comes when I've had it. I'm fed up because they are basically one-trick pony dumbasses. Nothing that stimulates my intellect or positive feelings at all. It's dull, stupid and boring. Then I let them have it when they poke at me. They freak out. Since I've been here, at BF, I've had several men sniff around. Jesus Christ, only one was a remote possibility...like super remote, in another place and time sort of thing. The rest have been nice men, but I have traveled that path before and it doesn't end well. Of those, two went badly and my profile as Lily was revealed. The other went apeshit when I wouldn't join forced with him against you. One went silent without any drama, and the other I still consider an e-friend. But that's a 50% batshit rate. By any measure, it's a fail. The weirdest thing about this is that I have never approached a man first for flirtation or otherwise in 17 years of being on message boards or forums. I came to forums from Yahoo message boards where it was pure trolling as far as I could tell. Joined my first forum and eventually started with PMs from different men. I could be more flirtatious back then, but that got me nothing but trouble. There was a time when some of the guys told me that I wasn't as fun as I used to be. Being fun online has to be set within strict parameters, there are a lot of broken men out there. These rejects have no sense of scale. The whole online flirtation thing is fantasy from my point of view. Some of them took it so seriously. Others thought that it was some God given right to poke at me with a stick constantly though they pretended to be "friends". Once I grabbed the stick away and shoved it up their asses, they felt rejected. Who knows why? Men are extremely fragile creatures. Emotionally, they're a mess. They are caught up in, gasp, I'll use that term, small dick energy. It's expressed of course in exaggerated amounts. The misogyny, the objectification of women, etc...is off the charts in the virtual anonymity of the web. So brave, yeah? lol And I will be honest, the women here that feed and stroke their egos, as women do all over the world, makes the problem worse. I have always said I'm online to have some laughs and occasional discussion like we're having. I'm not here to shop for a male. I don't think the good catches are hanging on forums, for whatever that's worth. Again, there are exceptions, but they are rare. A real man should have self-confidence based on how self-realized he has become. I think what were dealing with here, are a shitload of men that aren't self-realized and they know it, it's right beneath the skin. You can boil all that down to: there are some entitled clowns online that think that they are owed attention and energy from whatever woman they're interested in. Especially clowns like Freud who seems to want recognition from women but also the rep for talking to everyone. [/QUOTE]
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