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<blockquote data-quote="Dove" data-source="post: 944914" data-attributes="member: 535">I'm always careful with my judgement when I see things like this because I know exactly what it's like to have people shame and berate you over your mother.&nbsp; My mother is an abusive drunk who is never going to change. I have done everything in my power to help her and all she ever does is use people. &quot;You have one mother!&quot; So people are obligated to cater to their abusers so long as that abuser is a parent. &nbsp;It takes A LOT in most cases to inspire someone to drop or cut off a parent. Everyone has that deep need for their parents approval. And he is young still. &nbsp;I have no idea what's happening here and I'm not invested enough on his life or family dramas to find out. He is either a massive dick or he is finally drawing boundaries with an abuser.&nbsp; I don't really have strong enough feelings about it to dive in.&nbsp; &nbsp;Even if he was the anti Christ, even if he was everything I oppose....he still had the right to defend himself against attackers. We all do.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Dove, post: 944914, member: 535"] I'm always careful with my judgement when I see things like this because I know exactly what it's like to have people shame and berate you over your mother. My mother is an abusive drunk who is never going to change. I have done everything in my power to help her and all she ever does is use people. "You have one mother!" So people are obligated to cater to their abusers so long as that abuser is a parent. It takes A LOT in most cases to inspire someone to drop or cut off a parent. Everyone has that deep need for their parents approval. And he is young still. I have no idea what's happening here and I'm not invested enough on his life or family dramas to find out. He is either a massive dick or he is finally drawing boundaries with an abuser. I don't really have strong enough feelings about it to dive in. Even if he was the anti Christ, even if he was everything I oppose....he still had the right to defend himself against attackers. We all do. [/QUOTE]

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