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<blockquote data-quote="Dove" data-source="post: 743015" data-attributes="member: 535">I really wouldnt ask a man out at all.&nbsp; He would have to be someone I wanted badly. &nbsp;The only time I ever paid for everything, i had absolutely zero respect for the person i was killing time with.&nbsp; And you cant have a relationship with a man you dont respect. I have to be with someone i feel is better than me. And i mean smarter, stronger emotionally and mentally as well as physically. &nbsp;My husband isnt wealthy and doesnt have a ton of money.&nbsp; We are working class. But I generally view him as above me so I'm happy with it.&nbsp; I've never paid for anything with him. Even when I worked he still paid all the bills and for our medical insurance and all that.&nbsp; &nbsp;I actually require very little to be happy and I see that as a strength and peace.&nbsp; &nbsp;But if a man wont pay for a date than I dont see him as someone who will take care of me or that i can depend on.&nbsp; I need a total sucker lol.&nbsp; Probably because I was raised by my grandma I'm just put off by men who want women to pay for things....its almost emasculating in my view.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Dove, post: 743015, member: 535"] I really wouldnt ask a man out at all. He would have to be someone I wanted badly. The only time I ever paid for everything, i had absolutely zero respect for the person i was killing time with. And you cant have a relationship with a man you dont respect. I have to be with someone i feel is better than me. And i mean smarter, stronger emotionally and mentally as well as physically. My husband isnt wealthy and doesnt have a ton of money. We are working class. But I generally view him as above me so I'm happy with it. I've never paid for anything with him. Even when I worked he still paid all the bills and for our medical insurance and all that. I actually require very little to be happy and I see that as a strength and peace. But if a man wont pay for a date than I dont see him as someone who will take care of me or that i can depend on. I need a total sucker lol. Probably because I was raised by my grandma I'm just put off by men who want women to pay for things....its almost emasculating in my view. [/QUOTE]

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