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<blockquote data-quote="The Best Holliday" data-source="post: 1278199" data-attributes="member: 11635"> . Going how I want? There is no way I want it to go. Where it goes is you compounding the impression that you are a child...which you are to any adult. Not sure what stupid or ignorant ideas I have (in your opinion), and have expressed about fidelity other than I share some basic values with you. . Now just one last comment on how your narcissism expresses itself. You apparently think that what you value and you have is what everyone wants, and that anyone who by choice or otherwise doesn't is deprived and unfulfilled.. Over the much longer course of time that a little un like you has been around, I've known many well accomplished people, people in the arts, sciences, in religious orders who regard personal romantic relationships as distractions and detriments to pursuit to their primary interests, some early and some later in life. There are whole historical classes of people who eschew them and look upon those who don't or can't as engaged in folly, of indulging the animal soul and instinct - that of lower passions.... Collectors of fools gold. All the more pathetic something so fleeting and impermanent is thought of as great riches. . None who precede you in this look upon you with envy. You are a kindergartener, in a world of people far more learned.&nbsp; You might though be grateful that any has been kindly enough to take interest and to council you.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="The Best Holliday, post: 1278199, member: 11635"] [COLOR=rgb(0, 0, 0)] . [/COLOR]Going how I want? There is no way I want it to go. Where it goes is you compounding the impression that you are a child...which you are to any adult. Not sure what stupid or ignorant ideas I have (in your opinion), and have expressed about fidelity other than I share some basic values with you. [COLOR=rgb(0, 0, 0)].[/COLOR] Now just one last comment on how your narcissism expresses itself. You apparently think that what you value and you have is what everyone wants, and that anyone who by choice or otherwise doesn't is deprived and unfulfilled. [COLOR=rgb(0, 0, 0)]. [/COLOR]Over the much longer course of time that a little un like you has been around, I've known many well accomplished people, people in the arts, sciences, in religious orders who regard personal romantic relationships as distractions and detriments to pursuit to their primary interests, some early and some later in life. There are whole historical classes of people who eschew them and look upon those who don't or can't as engaged in folly, of indulging the animal soul and instinct - that of lower passions.... Collectors of fools gold. All the more pathetic something so fleeting and impermanent is thought of as great riches. [COLOR=rgb(0, 0, 0)] . [/COLOR]None who precede you in this look upon you with envy. You are a kindergartener, in a world of people far more learned. You might though be grateful that any has been kindly enough to take interest and to council you. [/QUOTE]

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