Who said anyone needed me?
How come when you get into a little hot water, you want to drag Murdy into a mess of your own making?
And it isn't about who is a friend or not. It's about the behavior. You can try to spin my opinion to try to cover your own shit. I'm rejecting that.
This isn't about Murdock, it's about you.
I think it's funny you decided I'm in "hot water".
You act like you are the judge and jury and authority on other people. I'm in hot water? For what? With WHO?
Doing something YOU don't like? Lmao! Again why do you think your approval is needed....to the point where not having it is "hot water"?
You sound like a sanctimonious, pearl clutching stick up the ass old woman. Who thinks adult children should still be treated like 5 years olds. Whose own daughter doesn't want friendship with her mother.
And yes, Lily.....when your kids are adults,you CAN be their mother AND a friend. AND still have respect. I feel bad that you are stuck in extremes and have no grasp of context or nuances.
It's not about the bong. It's a personal issue YOU have.
I think your stance here is completely fake, as well as outdated and harmful and I'm never going to shut down lines of communication with my daughters because some woman in CA who supports giving puberty blockers to actual children and destroying their bodies and future sexual function doesn't approve of the topic.
Likewise I'm never going to shame, reject, belittle my daughters either. They are completely free to come to me with ANY issue. I'm blessed they don't tell me to "stay in my lane" and shut me out of their inner world.
The same daughter who smokes weed here is also a bartender. Is it improper for her to talk about her job with me, too?
Everyone notices you will work hard to make something far worse than it is when you think you have something to beat and condemn someone you don't like while making tons of excuses for people you currently like.
It's not about Murd, OR me. That is about your double standards.
I'm not sorry I showed them how I made bongs in HS. You being a preachy peabrain about it isn't the flex you think it is.