By the time I was 25, I had two....TWO divorces and two children.
And I know this is "frowned upon" but those two girls are adults now....and they are my best fucking friends.
Like they are cool. They are good fucking people. I raised people that I like hanging out with and I LOVE that.
My girls are awesome. My oldest was over here last night until like midnight (that's late for her....she's been "getting to bed" by 9pm since she was 7 years old lol.
This transition from like....mom to friend (specail super friend because im still mom you know?) Was hard HARD for me at first but it's nice. They were my biggest supporters during my divorce. Again I know that's "frowned upon" but they really came to me like the most supportive and loving people.
And they take me to breakfast and shit. Having adult kids is awesome lol.
They try to include me in their young adult events. I say no because I'm all 43 and I'm not gonna hang out with people on their 20s but it really tickles me that they want me to LOL
I went over to my girl's house to cut the lawn in preparation for a gathering this weekend. She wasn't home and told me she wasn't happy with the idea, I could hurt my back (in text).
I said it's a small yard and the lawn mower is power driven. It's like 10 min job.
Still not happy she said.
I replied LOL
She said "Don't you LOL at me!"
I responded with "Stop me". "You CANNOT. I AM THE BOSS OF MY LOLOLs"
I got "OMFG" "You are too much hahaha"
I cut the lawn, pull some weeds and trimmed some plants, finally planted a lily of the nile for her.
She was pleased.
But that's how we get on.
Then other times we're dead serious when she needs to talk. She's 29 years old and I can't believe it.