I'm just butting in here out of nowhere, I know.
.Long day fishing and hiking.
You know, I think the question being asked is,
. Why are you not enough for those guys, and aren't just a little suspicious that yer mayin is slippin it to some younger, prettier, more exciting (and heck of a lot more intelligent) chick on the sly?
I'm just trying to spare the members another page or two of back and forth on this.
. Sorry, I be goin now.
First off i was 20 the first time i was cheated on and he was cheating with everyone including my mother. Yes he fucked my mom.
No one is enough for that ex. He is a degenerate porn addict. He has cheated on every single woman he has been with since i divorced him. Him and his current wife are swingers.
Also its important to note that i never once even came close to orgasm with him. He is an extemely selfish lay. He never could make me cum but HE always got to finish.....and yet somehow, someway, i still didnt cheat.
My second ex who i ended up married too almost immediately after my first divorce when i was 23 cheated with a coworker in the first year. She was 5 years older than me. She wet the bed all over him. And she was pretty plain. A single mother whose 18 month old was removed by the state.
No shocker that this man never made me cum either.
As i said earlier....his cheating was the least of the horrible things he has done.
He is still single. Still cheats on everyone. Is still the same old selfish liar he always was.
The 3rd guy as i stated earlier, when i caught him cheating he threw her under the bus. Begged me to stay and MARRY him. Had a ton of excuses. I wouldnt take him back. I pack and left. 5 months later he married his cheat partner. I was 30. The cheat partner was 33.
They had a baby.....he cheats on her now too.
See i decided long ago that if i am in a monogamous relationship and i agree to be faithful....that is my responsibility. If i have a problem in my relationship i will either try to fix it or leave. I do not cheat. And it is not my job....nor is it anyones job...to make sure their partner stays faithful.
Only an individual is responsible for thier own actions. If i wasnt "enough" and they wanted someone younger (which...gross what did they need? A fucking teenager? Disgusting) or more exciting, they should have said that and went and got it. I absolutely took the hint and made them free to pusue whatever they wanted whilst they....cried and begged to stay. Funny that huh?
Im not someone who will ever contort myself to be "enough" for a man. If he is bored and unsatisfied he can move along and im happy to replace him with someone better. Which is exactly how ive handled that sort of manchild behavior so far.
Oh the third cheater couldnt make me cum either so thats a running theme with men like that. Probably because they view women as objects meant to excite them and appeal to them instead of human beings to love and have relationships with. Go figure.
