no ...met them at their family reunion , my now wife just got legally separated from her ex of ten years. , moved upstate from where she was living ( 200 miles ) Her brother punched me in the gut , her sister told me she didn't want to know my name as I was a rebound with no long term plans. Her oldest brother asked what my intentions were. And I had to chat with her spooky dad he was a kin to Vito Corleone ffs. It gets worse but I'll leave this as is for now.