Civility and respect among friends: An exemplar

[Reggie_Essent]

This guy was at McDonald’s with his baby, asking for help buying his baby formula. He coulda been lying, I don’t know. I gave him 30.00 cuz I know formula is expensive. He seemed genuine but even if it was a scam, I couldn’t drive off thinking his baby didn’t have formula.

I used to flip this one bum a couple bucks or a handful of change if I got stopped at the light by this one store I always go to. He was all raggedy and had his little cardboard sign and everything ...

Until one day I went to that store and saw the guy getting into a nice late model Toyota. His shift must have been over. I don't give him money anymore, but he still hangs out there with his little cardboard sign.

 

[Lily]

I respect people who are respectable. People are respectable who are honest. You're not.

Says the liar.

You lied about the situation regarding incident in January, that wasn't so much as mentioned in my OP.

You lied about not posting your go fund me information here.

You are a proven liar.

 

[Lily]

I was grateful; I was polite; I was courteous.

That did not mean that I was selling my fucking opinions or moral compass.

You did not maintain your courtesy. You started name calling the minute we had a political disagreement.

 

[Lily]

That is a lie.

I know from first-hand experience.

When was I ever unkind to you when you extended kindness to me?

Be specific and link it.

 

[Frood]

You did not maintain your courtesy. You started name calling the minute we had a political disagreement.

What the f'ng oink, you say?

 

[Lily]

If you really were charitable to a lot of poor people, you would know that it is often not appreciated. At least that is my experience. You are as likely to get a complaint as you are to get a "Thank you."

I haven't had people be unkind and unappreciative. Not even the people on the street.

You know what though? I look them in the eye, they're people and should be treated as such. Even when I don't have cash on me, I'm honest and tell them I'm out of cash. I don't walk past them and pretend I don't see them, like most.

 

[Lily]

Generally, that's probably true. Between Jack and I, who have known each other for over 20 years now, it's no business of yours. It's incredibly presumptuous on your part to try to dictate the terms of interactions you have no part of.

I'm not dictating, dipshit. I'm judging. Yes, that's right, judging it. People that say they don't judge are liars.

 

[Lily]

Lily, are you going to request a refund from Paypal?

Nope. It was my mistake, therefore my fault.

 

[Frood]

I'm not dictating, dipshit. I'm judging. Yes, that's right, judging it. People that say they don't judge are liars.

Weigh Bridges judge you.

 

[Courier 6]

You did not maintain your courtesy. You started name calling the minute we had a political disagreement.

And there it is. You thought you were buying meekness from me. But I was never selling it.

 

[Lily]

And there it is. You thought you were buying meekness from me. But I was never selling it.

Courtesy is not meekness. Otherwise, they'd be the same word, DERP.

"No, courtesy and meekness are not synonyms. While both words describe positive character traits, they have distinct meanings."

 

[Frood]

Courtesy is not meekness. Otherwise, they'd be the same word, DERP.

I thought pigs went OINK, not DERP....

 

[Courier 6]

Courtesy is not meekness. Otherwise, they'd be the same word, DERP.

"No, courtesy and meekness are not synonyms. While both words describe positive character traits, they have distinct meanings."

Let's just clear this up:

When you're a nasty cunt to somebody, they have every right to be nasty right back to you.

Even if you pretend you don't know you've been a nasty cunt. Get over it.

 

[Lily]

Let's just clear this up:

When you're a nasty cunt to somebody, they have every right to be nasty right back to you.

Even if you pretend you don't know you've been a nasty cunt. Get over it.

Yeah, keep blaming me for your shitty attitude.

You should be thanking me actually, I put your shitty ass on the map.

 

[X]

I'm just soft-hearted with people that are struggling.

I was raised quite poor.

I understand …

 

[Seamajor]

Like a gofundme? Why what happened?

Ask hubby

 

[Lily]

I understand …

Are you just trolling me too?

I'm serious. In the original OP, I didn't mention helping him out. C6 talked about it in subsequent posts. He tried changing the subject, look like a lot of people fell for that manipulation.

The OP is about him and Jack and how they are so very "civil".

 

[X]

Are you just trolling me too?

I'm serious. In the original OP, I didn't mention helping him out. C6 talked about it in subsequent posts. He tried changing the subject, look like a lot of people fell for that manipulation.

The OP is about him and Jack and how they are so very "civil".

I mean your statement about growing up poor, it resonates that’s all Lily honest injin’ …

 

[Lily]

I mean your statement about growing up poor, it resonates that’s all Lily honest injin’ …

The silver lining is that I'm pretty fuckin' resilient because of it.

 

[X]

Him and JACK are like minded perverts, each has got 6 for the other.
dick-biters LOL

 

[X]

The silver lining is that I'm pretty fuckin' resilient because of it.

Not me, every decade broke me more and more

 

[Lily]

Him and JACK are like minded perverts, each has got 6 for the other.
dick-biters LOL

Yeah, they are pretty fuckin' strange.

 

[Frood]

The silver lining is that I'm pretty fuckin' resilient because of it.

Except for the elastic in your undergarments...

 

[Lily]

Not me, every decade broke me more and more

I'm sorry to hear that, truly. I've fallen on my ass many times, but there's something inside that pushes me to get up, wipe myself off and get back out there again.

I wish I knew what it was.

 

[X]

Yeah, they are pretty fuckin' strange.

He was openly begging again in the SB earlier again LOL
He could earn loot in the circus as the shortest armed pervert

 

[Lily]

Except for the elastic in your undergarments...

I can afford to buy new ones. You can't?

Aww...sad.

 

[Frood]

I'm sorry to hear that, truly. I've fallen on my ass many times, but there's something inside that pushes me to get up, wipe myself off and get back out there again.

I wish I knew what it was.

Explosive farts.

 

[Frood]

I can afford to buy new ones. You can't?

Aww...sad.

Not every few days.

 

[Lily]

He was openly begging again in the SB earlier again LOL
He could earn loot in the circus as the shortest armed pervert

He was asking for money again?!

Did he think anyone would give him any? Now, they may take his "side" to fuck virtue signal, but none of them are ever going to send him money.

 

[Lily]

Explosive farts.

Gumption motherfucker...while you ran off to be a failure in a country with a more generous social safety net.