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<blockquote data-quote="Dove" data-source="post: 446092" data-attributes="member: 535">He has so much to say about me and I have no interest in any of it. Same repetitive and bitter garbage.It's just sad. Every few months he pops in and repeats himself for a few days and dips out.Narcissists never stop holding grudges and never reach any points of indifference and they always assume their &quot;target&quot; has the same energy over it as they do. Such a sensitive trigger. They never just let it go and act normal, they dont know how.So textual tantrums aside my stance and advice stands and it's a good learning moment. Recovery is more and deeper than simple abstinence. And disregard anyone who would try to tell you that your problem isnt real - they dont have your best interest in mind AND odds are good they have a heap of their own issues that you dont want to inflict on yourself. &nbsp;Nothing said here changes my points. I only bothered countering it because I know how vulnerable people can be when they are at the point of seeking help and it would be sad to see someones recovery be derailed by the ignorant nonsense of a bitter forum rando who is so far from where Shamp wants to be.&nbsp; Someone who thinks being a bartender makes him an expert on alcoholism and able to diagnose someone over the internet of whom they've never met. &nbsp;On the very OFF chance Shamp was considering this bad advice....I had to keep it real. &nbsp;None of what I said should be mistaken as interest in whatever narcissistic grudge he is still harboring or an invitation to share some rerun rants. &nbsp;Carry on ♡</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Dove, post: 446092, member: 535"] He has so much to say about me and I have no interest in any of it. Same repetitive and bitter garbage. It's just sad. Every few months he pops in and repeats himself for a few days and dips out. Narcissists never stop holding grudges and never reach any points of indifference and they always assume their "target" has the same energy over it as they do. Such a sensitive trigger. They never just let it go and act normal, they dont know how. So textual tantrums aside my stance and advice stands and it's a good learning moment. Recovery is more and deeper than simple abstinence. And disregard anyone who would try to tell you that your problem isnt real - they dont have your best interest in mind AND odds are good they have a heap of their own issues that you dont want to inflict on yourself. Nothing said here changes my points. I only bothered countering it because I know how vulnerable people can be when they are at the point of seeking help and it would be sad to see someones recovery be derailed by the ignorant nonsense of a bitter forum rando who is so far from where Shamp wants to be. Someone who thinks being a bartender makes him an expert on alcoholism and able to diagnose someone over the internet of whom they've never met. On the very OFF chance Shamp was considering this bad advice....I had to keep it real. None of what I said should be mistaken as interest in whatever narcissistic grudge he is still harboring or an invitation to share some rerun rants. Carry on ♡ [/QUOTE]

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