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<blockquote data-quote="Dove" data-source="post: 818534" data-attributes="member: 535">You know him online. It's a whole different ballgame in real life &nbsp;Also how many times do we see this shit go down where someone was caught with things like CP and everyone in their life was floored?&nbsp; There are women who discover their own husband's are into that. Or find out they've been married to a serial killer. &nbsp;We never really KNOW a person is all I'm saying.&nbsp; That's why I prefer background checks on men I've meet and intend to spend time with. I had one done on Biggie and he was all for it. He completely supported it. He told me anything I wanted to know....he was an open book and I think it made him respect me more. &nbsp;But even then there is still the reality that they may have just not been caught. &nbsp;My rule of thumb is the minute shit doesn't add up....anything conflicting... getting angry about questioning things....secretive....defensive....those are big red flags. Inconsistency.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Dove, post: 818534, member: 535"] You know him online. It's a whole different ballgame in real life Also how many times do we see this shit go down where someone was caught with things like CP and everyone in their life was floored? There are women who discover their own husband's are into that. Or find out they've been married to a serial killer. We never really KNOW a person is all I'm saying. That's why I prefer background checks on men I've meet and intend to spend time with. I had one done on Biggie and he was all for it. He completely supported it. He told me anything I wanted to know....he was an open book and I think it made him respect me more. But even then there is still the reality that they may have just not been caught. My rule of thumb is the minute shit doesn't add up....anything conflicting... getting angry about questioning things....secretive....defensive....those are big red flags. Inconsistency. [/QUOTE]

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