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I posted much of this over at TBC and it was so popular here that I decided to post a thread about it.
Let's try to keep replies serious and on topic, thanks.
There was a suggestion that women aren't really into getting assfucked, they just do it to make the guy happy or whatever. My experiences over the past 30 years or so with at least a half a dozen women dispute this theory.
Let's start with my exwife. We experimented with it some years into the relationship. Parden my analogy but she took to it like candy to a baby. She asked for it many times when it wasn't even on my mind and her excitement level was clearly elevated as compared to VJ sex.
A woman I dated for 10 months that I will call Sharon because that's what her parents called her. A sexy irish blonde, a short while into the relationship after we'd been intimate, one night as we were getting down to business and I was ready to stick my hard cock into her pussy, she whispered in her soft raspy voice, "You can fuck me in the ass if you want". Things had been humming along rather well to that point so I don't see any reason for her to bring it up other than for her own enjoyment.
Then there was my recent 10 year relationship. She had a long history of anal sex and she told me she was really into it. Again, why even mention it if it wasn't the subject of conversation and things were good in other areas which at least as far as I can tell they were. And if they weren't, and anal sex wasn't enjoyable to these women then it doesn't make sense to bring it up.
Back in college there was a chick I will call Nancy because that's what her name was. We were maybe a month into the relationship, laying in a field one night under a star filled sky, and in between sticking our tongues down each other's throats she whispered in my ear "let's have anal sex". You see, she was a "technical virgin" meaning she was saving her pussy for marriage but her ass was up for grabs. Back then the thought of sticking it in that dark dirth hole was not on my "to do" list so I took a pass. She held on for another week or two then consented to being officially devirginized. I don't think I ever assfucked her.
As far as I'm concerned, I enjoyed it with some women only because as they got older things loosened up a bit and with one woman I felt like I was fucking a mop bucket. Anal sex with her was the only way I could stay hard and I mean you can feel every thrust like 10x more than when you're pounding a VJ. Also when you're fucking a girl in the ass, there's the "dirty" factor as well as the sense of control you get sticking your cock into an opening that it isn't supposed to be stuck into. Sort of like giving a messy facial, it's a power trip while humiliating her at the same time.
You definitely don't want to rush things especially if it's her first time or its been a while. Unlike VJ sex you gotta stick your dick in until you meet resistance, then keep the pressure on it until she relaxes her sphincter at which point it's like a door opening, sometimes there's even a popping sound and then suddenly you're in as far as your balls.
But the shitty aspects were a turnoff, there were a few crappy moments. I developed a cardinal rule that I will pass on to anyone considering this activity. No pulling out until you're both done, and when you do, it's gotta be sloooowww. Don't wipe your dick on anything especially a pillowcase, and NEVER, EVER look down. Go right to the nearest sink and wash yourself off before even considering doing a post coital inspection. Do not ask me how I know this.
Let's try to keep replies serious and on topic, thanks.
There was a suggestion that women aren't really into getting assfucked, they just do it to make the guy happy or whatever. My experiences over the past 30 years or so with at least a half a dozen women dispute this theory.
Let's start with my exwife. We experimented with it some years into the relationship. Parden my analogy but she took to it like candy to a baby. She asked for it many times when it wasn't even on my mind and her excitement level was clearly elevated as compared to VJ sex.
A woman I dated for 10 months that I will call Sharon because that's what her parents called her. A sexy irish blonde, a short while into the relationship after we'd been intimate, one night as we were getting down to business and I was ready to stick my hard cock into her pussy, she whispered in her soft raspy voice, "You can fuck me in the ass if you want". Things had been humming along rather well to that point so I don't see any reason for her to bring it up other than for her own enjoyment.
Then there was my recent 10 year relationship. She had a long history of anal sex and she told me she was really into it. Again, why even mention it if it wasn't the subject of conversation and things were good in other areas which at least as far as I can tell they were. And if they weren't, and anal sex wasn't enjoyable to these women then it doesn't make sense to bring it up.
Back in college there was a chick I will call Nancy because that's what her name was. We were maybe a month into the relationship, laying in a field one night under a star filled sky, and in between sticking our tongues down each other's throats she whispered in my ear "let's have anal sex". You see, she was a "technical virgin" meaning she was saving her pussy for marriage but her ass was up for grabs. Back then the thought of sticking it in that dark dirth hole was not on my "to do" list so I took a pass. She held on for another week or two then consented to being officially devirginized. I don't think I ever assfucked her.
As far as I'm concerned, I enjoyed it with some women only because as they got older things loosened up a bit and with one woman I felt like I was fucking a mop bucket. Anal sex with her was the only way I could stay hard and I mean you can feel every thrust like 10x more than when you're pounding a VJ. Also when you're fucking a girl in the ass, there's the "dirty" factor as well as the sense of control you get sticking your cock into an opening that it isn't supposed to be stuck into. Sort of like giving a messy facial, it's a power trip while humiliating her at the same time.
You definitely don't want to rush things especially if it's her first time or its been a while. Unlike VJ sex you gotta stick your dick in until you meet resistance, then keep the pressure on it until she relaxes her sphincter at which point it's like a door opening, sometimes there's even a popping sound and then suddenly you're in as far as your balls.
But the shitty aspects were a turnoff, there were a few crappy moments. I developed a cardinal rule that I will pass on to anyone considering this activity. No pulling out until you're both done, and when you do, it's gotta be sloooowww. Don't wipe your dick on anything especially a pillowcase, and NEVER, EVER look down. Go right to the nearest sink and wash yourself off before even considering doing a post coital inspection. Do not ask me how I know this.
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