It's the way you jump onto accusations without even knowing the poster or the situation. You're a relatively new comer to Bastard Factory. I know you have forum experience, like at TRF and SG.
While those were good forums, Bastard Factory is whole different animal. Since most of the forums we're all from either closed or died a horrible death, now you basically have a forum with the run offs from those defunct boards, which means the best and the worst posters are all sharing one small fish bowl.
There will be varying opinions on different members, mostly from previous grudges or disagreements.
Again, it's not what you say, but do. The most ignorant thing one can do here is gaslight something you, yourself don't know if it's truth or fiction.
For example:
Do you really think I think Lily is f-at? The better question is do I fucking care? Not in the least fucking bit. Why? Because her being obese has no bearing on my life. Out here on the forums is a different story. I know it gets to her, and the hefty cow deserves all the shit she gets for being a P.I. spewing piece of sub human excrement.
Do you really think I dislike Freud? Better question is who gives a real fuck? I met Freud at BH when I was 17. I grew up with these kinds of forums and Freud. It wasn't intentional, I had no plans making the forums a long term hobby. It just worked out this way. This is where you have the disadvantage. Freud and I know who is who and any past transgressions that certain poster may have or didn't do. While you are starting out new, it'll take some time to find your bearings. I do not envy you. No one is saying listen to me, though what I am saying is make your own informed decisions based on as much fact as possible. I know sometimes the truth and lies out here tread a fine line, but if you're as smart as you claim to be then it won't be an issue for you.
The 'bad guys" out here aren't always the villains, sometimes the villain is staring right back at you when you look in the mirror.