Dove I don't know the backstory and I didn't read all the long posts at the start of this thread but it seems like someone got under your skin. That's called "trolling". Responding to it and making tribute threads is a fail. What exactly are you looking to accomplish here? Trying to convince a bunch of mostly internet strangers that you're right and the other person is wrong?
Does anyone really care?
That much being said, having known both you and the person this thread is in response to, I can affirm that at least as far as I'm concerned, that other member has absolutely no credibility and is not taken seriously by anyone and I doubt she expects to, given the posting history of this member that borders on the bizarre.
So again, why bother defending yourself against something that no one would take seriously in the first place?
Oi fuckhead! Yes yooooo! Who the fuck asked your shitty-arsed opinion hey? Stay the fuck out of
@Dove ’s business. I, more than sick and tired of pasty, feemble-arsed nerds trying to have one-up on a decent mother trying to get on and live her life. Last warning!
Hey everyone is gonna have an opinion, yanno? I already know what it "seems" like and I'm fine with that.
I’m on your side...but the constant barrage against you is getting tired. It’s hard to tell friend from foe sometimes.
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I get it lol. Wizer isnt a foe....I've "known" him for a long time. I even met him back when Big and I were a couple. He did my eye exam and then we (me, Big and Wizer) went out for dinner lol.
He doesnt know what's going on here at all. It's just ridiculous drama.
The constant barrage is insane isnt it? At this point the odds of these people making ME feel even the slightest bit bad is way in the negative. They are way too mentally/emotionally underdeveloped.
Especailly Lily and Murd who are so over the top petty that instead of just talking to me like the intelligent adults they fancy themselves, they chose to try to what.... embarrass me off the boards? And tried so hard that they chose a disturbing lie that I'm a child sex abuse enabler. And RAN with it. And now they are trying to make ME responsible for preserving this lie by not exposing how deeply disturbed and hateful they are. There are reasons for this that I'll talk about later in this post.
All these vile hysterics because they cant discuss politics without hate and anger when people dont just accept thier views as fact.
If you were THAT unable to argue your stance or back your opinions that you constantly feel the need to attack your opponent personally but cry foul when they attack back, and you were always finding yourself not just unable to back your claims and opinions but you experienced toxic anger like that.... wouldnt that make you really question yourself?
I would definately question myself over that. Anything that disturbs my spiritual equilibrium causes me to step back and reflect. Lashing out at people and seeing them as enemies and dehumanizing those outside your "beliefs" because they asked questions you cant answer or poked too many holes in your narrative is something cult members do. If you arent with them, you are of evil. If your beliefs inspire you to hate people who dont share them, or cause you to think of others as below you, well your beliefs are shit.
It's just sad, frustrating and really squashes my hope for the country. We dont have real leadership or a government for the people. We have a fake two party power struggle that the corporate political establishment fuels and benefits from. Instead of working to make the country stronger and better for regular people, turn them on eachother and destroy it as they fight.
The ridiculous preoccupation with some dumb and very short fling I had 3 years ago that some people feel entitled to all the gritty details of because Poofer felt it nessesary to involve the forum (one of the reasons I wanted to end it was because of the lies and the constant discussing it in podcasts and the board. I asked several times for that to stop and it was just off putting) is really demented and the ones doing it have absolutely no awareness of how creepy and stupid they actually look.
How boring and miserable does your life have to be to get that fixated and emotionally involved in that? They seriously have stronger feelings about it than I ever did. It's like they want me to give them closure on it and they feel entitled enough that thier opinions and feelings about what they read about it should matter. The self importance is incredible.
They are full of this turmoil and anger and unable to get over it and I'm supposed to feel bad? Lol. And it's like the more I dont, the more intense they get about it. Like it pisses them off and gets them more worked up and they feed off eachother with it. It's also a form of misogyny, always holding women to much higher standards and trying to tear them down if they dont meet those expectations.
They are nuts, truly nuts. No understanding of boundaries and no self awareness.
I like how Flynn has wasted years of bandwidth on this topic, bleeding his offended feels all over the forums, demanding answers and spamming his unsolicited opinions on it....on a situation that doesnt involve him that he is owed no answers or info on, making all these sanctimonious and useless judgements that he believes matter and should matter...and he calls ME narcissistic. That just shows you the level of self importance, narcissism and lack of self awareness at play here. This dumb ass really believes I should have to defend myself over it and blubber for his approval. And he is an actual no one in it. Same with Blandscape. In thier minds, not only are they owed an explaination....but thier judgements should be taken to heart and held up as gospel. And they dont see that as narcissistic. They see my lack of explaination and my lack of care for thier opinion as narcissistic. Because to them, I OWE them some level of honesty and transparency. So they are stuck on this and having all these negative feelings that they are inflicting on themselves....in my direction....and are trying to make me responsible for them. Even though I've been steady clear I didnt want it on the forums in the first place, they are obsessive about it. They just cannot get a fucking clue that no one is going to discuss it, answer any questions, care about these opinions....and drop it and move on. They will just repeat this shit over and over.
Really if all these parties (Poofer, his brother, his cyber flying monkeys who cant cope) were all hit by a bus it wouldnt bother me even a bit. But they cant accept they just are not important and no one cares about this stupid and over done topic. Its like....okay, you think I'm a liar, a skank, a scammer and you want to believe Poofers side of the matter. WHY do we have to validate this? Because you dont want to see my lying scamming ass post? Put me on ignore and take responsibility for your own self. No one is obligated to cater to thier voluntary bad feelings.
It's just obvious there is a really fucking heavy narcissistic injury here, but that's not my problem in the slightest. He wanted it on forums, he put it there, he made his choices and if that made him feel stupid or foolish, well that's on him. Just like this OP. Murd brought this convo to the forums willingly and was enjoying that when she was accusing me of being a fucking child sex abuse enabler, but now the convo SHE couldnt stop posting about was posted, she is somehow a victim. These people are legit pissed that thier scheming bullshit THEY insisted on posting backfired on them because thier target didnt act the way they wanted.
Me? I dont give a single shit. No one does. They have this whole intense battle raging in thier minds where I'm this super villain they need to take down and its really all dramatic and pearl clutching for them.
They are just gonna go off on it indefinitely, I guess. And he will stay off the boards until he thinks there is some drama with me and then pop in to take bitter shots. He can't just come and post about other shit. He is so self absorbed and thinks the boards revolve around him and that everyone just is consumed with stuff involving him. He stays off because he thinks he looks bad and that it really matters how he is seen. And in order to be seen the way he wants to be seen, I have to be "defeated". I have to be shown to be some crazed loser. Or he cant cope with just posting. He really believes he matters to everyone that much that they are invested into that drama and it has to be resolved a certain way.
That's the thing with disordered personalities like this. They suffer a narcissistic injury if they feel you have made them look stupid or caused any cracks in thier masks and disrupted the way they want and imagine they are seen by others. So if you do that....intentionally or not.. they need to "destroy" you in order to fix thier own self image. They are completely driven by thier ego.
Narc psychology is exhausting lol. Not nearly exhausting as thier narcissistic grudges. Its a constant mission to control everything. The narrative. Other people. Even when other people are so sick of the topic and dont care much about the narrative. They are really offended I didnt leave(because someone has to if a conflict happens, you know? They cant just set it aside and talk about other shit) so now it's just straight bitterness. It shouldnt still suprise me exactly how low and unhinged some people are willing to get to "win" some idiotic drama.
TLDR; Narcs are gonna narc.
I seriously could have just looked at him all night lol.
