His butthurt over you rejecting him is real
It fucks me up how dramatic my "break ups" always are.
I'm really not all that specail. I'm pretty average IMO. I have PTSD and a line of failed relationships and I'm chronically emotionally unavailable. The only times I have not been emotionally unavailable I experince deep insecurities. Like when I was with you and now as I'm with a man who has been my best friend for decades I have insecurities. I have deep abandonment issues. And I'm aware of this and I do my best to cope with it or work with it. M here isn't bothered by this all....he chuckles and pats me or puts his arm around me. But he has A LOT of experince with my brand of crazy.
This asshole Scrotini went off the fucking edge with love bombing and trying to get me to commit.....I was clear that I wasn't ready.
Not being able to let me have one fucking night to myself to sleep when my daughter was sick .....blowing up my fucking phone with some hysterical issue that he made up to have an excuse to interact with me was just too fucking much. He made that up, pretended to be mad and started a fight and escalated it until I told him I was done and do NOT contact me further and then he was like "No wait....I'm calm now" yeah I bet you are. You manipulative fucking liar that I see right through.
When narcissistic people cannot control you it enrages them and they hold that grudge forever. They have this whole battle raging inside themselves.