Some woman once told me she was raped as a teenager. She was a mess. She relived that trauma every day of her life thereafter 
@Dove. I gave her a gift. A CD with a song on it.
So sad to listen to that song even I have difficulty holding back the tears. But O think it captures her pain and sorrow.
		
 
Well I was going to address this but X showed up and now i am unable to continue any conversation he doesn't want to read.
 There is a BF rule that states any and every post directed at me must be approved of by X first to make sure its something he doesn't mind reading about or find to be uncomfortable. Certainly, I cannot share any details of my own life or experiences that X feels is too much.
 No he was not elected nor have I consented to his meddling, and he us certainly not on a payroll.....he just decided a few years ago to be MY personal moderator.
 If you have anything to post to me, make sure to clear it with X first so he let me know if it's okay for me to respond and together decide how I should respond.
 Be courteous now. I know it looks like this is a message board with free speech, and it is, granted X approves of the exchange and doesn't find it weird or boring.