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Yeah. Haven’t seen that one driving in a while thoMumbletini was probably driving last night
One of them is actually quite entertaining and fun to trade insults with, no idea which one though.
now we stuck with the boring and butthurt repetitive Flynn
the one that acts like a scorned bitch who got dumped by dovey
That gal is such a heartbreaker! :LOL1:
Not at all!
They say the time it takes to get over someone is the amount of time the encounter lasted. That's mostly for real committed relationships that last a year or more.
This was like a fling that lasted weeks, and here we are two years later because this is sociopathy.
Narcissistic abuse has cycles. There is that love bombing limerace period where they try to create this magical mythical love story and they try to move WAY too fast. This is where you hear a bunch of lies, ex slamming, future faking, talk of living together/marriage, all peppered with randoms dramas where they get overly pissed about little things.
It's a PLEASE ASS BOX ME! period. They start trying to "train" and groom you for abuse. There is gaslighting and a lot of emotional manipulation.
Then once they have you they start devaluing. Then they discard.
If you notice the pattern and understand what's happening in that PLEASE ASS BOX ME! love bombing stage and you put an end to it firmly, that loss of control enrages them.
I saw the pattern early on and was kinda trying to figure out how to seperate from it with the least amount of drama. I HATE drama in my life. And I dont like my privacy violated. These are things he knows....so that's why it happened.
This entire shit show is about control. He is raging and angry because he wants control.
The aftermath when you've cut ties with a narc always involves a character smear campaign, recruiting others in the shared network to their "side" and attempting to ruin your life.
This is a one sided "war" with a rage filled abuser who is obsessed with "winning".
So like how normal people would just accept it didnt work out and move on respectfully and keep the internet out of it like healthy adults, he has to create this unhinged nasty drama that goes on until he feels he has "won".
He isnt playing the same game, shit he isnt even on the same feild as everyone else.
The people that allowed themselves to get involved and become what's called "flying monkeys" all have similar cluster b disordered thinking and they are repeating their histories on these forums. Like Casket, shes been doing shit like this for 15 years that we know of.
Even after I disengaged and was off the boards for a bit, these nutcases went and tried to look me up, and then started telling posters on BC that they found I was getting evicted. And these drooling sociopaths really thought this was some big moment to "own" me and that I would be humiliated and...I dunno leave? I wasnt even on at the time.
They dont understand that normal, nonsociopathic people would meet that with a few levels of concern. People with normal empathy were worried about my family being put on streets AND worried that this nutbag was cyber stalking me. They do not get it.
So it helps to be prepared when you are dealing with obsessive narcs who have fixated on you and have no grasp on appropriate boundaries. They give themselves all kinds of rationalizations for their unhinged actions.
If this were a "broken heart" it would have been over a long time ago, never having seen the forums. This is narcissistic sociopathy and stalking.
When you pull the number of people like this, they lose it and immediately work on discrediting you. So expect to see "Duuuuur dovey plays victim!!".....that whole detachment from reality thing. They will put a lot of energy into making the "truth teller" look crazy or manipulative....where normal people would walk away. It's all very textbook.
MELTDOWN!!!!!111111111111111111
ROTFLMFAO!!!!!1111111
See? Textbook.
That was an all cap twofer because its true.
This person is more likely to engage in criminality assuming it will be protected as it's "just cyber stalking".....not realizing that a real life fling and knowing the identity of the stalker changes the entire matter....than it is to just walk away and let it go like a normal person.
It shows up and keeps on and on and gets pissed about what gets said back and thinks that entitles it to escalate. It's a pretty predictable process that happens often enough to have been seen many times. He fits every requirement of who actually gets in real trouble for online stalking/harrassment no matter how its spun the minute it goes off the forum venue.
Pretty sick shit.
"Pretty sick shit" is losing your children to the state.
"Pretty sick shit" is fucking two strangers off a forum.
"Pretty sick shit" is calling EVERYONE who doesn't agree with you a "PLEASE ASS BOX ME!."
"Pretty sick shit" is YOU getting evicted 2 weeks before Christmas.
Yanno?
Right.
Here is reality. Even....EVEN if all of this were true? It's not your business.
And the fact that you obsessively spam and are innapropriately emotional about it? Is really fucking sick. Creepy. Stalker behavior.
The more you rant, the more like a serial killer you sound.
You read like an obsessed psychopath. Also you are not as protected as you think, I'm afraid.
So. Now you're finally admitting to what I was saying all along? You are figuring out that you can't fool everyone, anymore? You are a crap mother who deserved to have children taken away from that dungeon of physical and mental abuse. I cried when I heard all your exploits pertaining to your innocent children.
BF lost Flea and King Martini because of your slutty lying ass. I would rather have Flea, Martini and Murdock and Seamajor and RancidMilko and EVEN Aryan AND BEnzo over the likes of YOU and that talking steroid, Biggie Dipshit.
You take all the fun out of these boards. You pull this fucking garbage at every fucking forum you fucking post at. You take the boards and make it into your little fucking fantasy land of sheer fucking nauseating drama that already HAS BEEN PROVEN BEING FUCKING BROUGHT UP BY NONE OTHER THAN YOUR STUPID FUCKING ASS.
At least with Aryan, BEnzo and even RancidMilko, I can have a nice chuckle once in a while. With you it's all about complaing about what other's think. Or bringing up old fucking shit then shifting the blame so you look picked on. I guess the thing that really stands out is you trying to sound intelligent. You should listen to yourself once in a while, you'll read what a stupid person sounds like trying to sound intelligent.
I actually feel sorry for you.
You could put me on ignore, idiot.
No is making you read my posts and rant like an obsessive psychopath.
You chose that. You ruin your own "fun".
Grow up and take responsibility for your stupid self. No one cares about you and your dumb self inflicted problems.
I could. But I won't. I like picking on shitty mothers.
Payback for the way your mother treated you ? was she a crackhead as well, was it her who passed on the big forehead gene ??
Forehead or not. I still have my kids, "tho."