Are you honestly so paranoid that you believe the use of the term "monster" in the thread title was a sneaky dig at you?
Not at all. As per usual, the actual point has sailed right over yer pointy head.
So you are calling me uncivil because Big is antagonizing in a thread and you dont want to ignore him?
Not quite, dearie. I'm calling you uncivil because despite your knowledge that your thread (the one that you disingenuously titled "can we call a truce" as though you wanted a civil discussion) was posted in a subforum where it would automatically get spammed and drooled on by people who think they are effective trolls EVEN THOUGH you asked them not to. And your choice of venue was a preference to other subfora where you could have asked moderators to police your thread. So now you're telling me that you have no control over certain posters, and your real meaning is that you don't wish to have any such control.
The takeaway is, when Dove asks other forum members for a civil conversation, she's trolling.