Is it right that WOMAN demand equality , then EXPECT the MAN to pay for the night out

[Q]

I always offer to pay the bill.....I actually insist. There is a strong reason behind this.

You’re a good women Casey K. A keeper

Why are you flirting with her?! I saw her first :Lovin1:

 

[Seamajor]

Oh. I’m sorry.

 

[Q]

Oh. I’m sorry.

You better be! Go find yourself a woman to pay dinner for ;-)

 

[Seamajor]

I know dozens of them

 

[Q]

I know dozens of them

In that case please post some pictures here ;-)

 

[skinofevil]

Jayzus. He's a stump headed ignoramus and a simp. Quite a catch, ladies, grab him while you can. lmfao

 

[Succubus]

No, I DO feel obligated to pay the bill because #1 I am independent and don't need a man, financially. #2 He's not gonna get in my panties just for taking me to a 5 star restaurant. Again, I assert myself. ;)

I can understand you, I absolutely respect it, but... it can also give him the signal that you might not like him enough. Or, maybe he chose a restaurant totally out of your budget... And I can tell you that for a man it feels good to pay for her, if he really likes her. Luckily I have always been in the position that I could affort it, but still.... I have also paid for women where I had no romantic intentions with, just friends.
And... I never expected sex in return for paying.

If I'm paying the bill, how or why would he feel that it would be out of my budget?

 

[rigor79]

it aint abt budget ... males like to be alpha and protective for their gf or wifey so i have been educated and when kids, first your kids than your missus and male comes last ... budget wise .. be a gentleman and strong male.. ?

 

[Succubus]

it aint abt budget ... males like to be alpha and protective for their gf or wifey so i have been educated and when kids, first your kids than your missus and male comes last ... budget wise .. be a gentleman and strong male.. ?

Props to your parents for raising you and instilling you with good morals. :)

 

[rigor79]

yeah .. but when alone .. grrrr ..

 

[skinofevil]

To me, paying the lady's way isn't about whether or not she's independent. Ironically enough, in the instance where I choose the venue, me paying her way is an act of fairness. I had the pleasure of choosing the venue; it's only fair, then, that she should have the pleasure of enjoying what it has to offer free of the stress of how hard her enjoyment might hit her pocketbook.

ADDENDUM: As to getting any 'entitled' feeling just because I've paid a young lady's way to share with her some of the nicer things I enjoy, when it comes to eateries or drinking establishments... nah. I'm well past that age, and I never much had that attitude.

Amusingly, the last time I took a young woman out for drinks, it was she who started getting annoyed, later that evening, that she was having a hard time getting me to sleep with her. The prospect hadn't even occurred to me; for me, sneaking goodly sips of the sight of her rather impressive cleavage was perfectly satisfying. :)

 

[Q]

Jayzus. He's a stump headed ignoramus and a simp. Quite a catch, ladies, grab him while you can. lmfao

Who are you talking about?

 

[Q]

No, I DO feel obligated to pay the bill because #1 I am independent and don't need a man, financially. #2 He's not gonna get in my panties just for taking me to a 5 star restaurant. Again, I assert myself. ;)

I can understand you, I absolutely respect it, but... it can also give him the signal that you might not like him enough. Or, maybe he chose a restaurant totally out of your budget... And I can tell you that for a man it feels good to pay for her, if he really likes her. Luckily I have always been in the position that I could affort it, but still.... I have also paid for women where I had no romantic intentions with, just friends.
And... I never expected sex in return for paying.

If I'm paying the bill, how or why would he feel that it would be out of my budget?

Usually the man chooses the restaurant. Thinking he can pay... And he might not know if she can afford to pay for a dinner in that restaurant.

 

[Swamp-Duck]

Is a restaurant the only place you can think of for a date ? Bit fucking boring if you ask me. Go to the races, paint balling, the zoo, have a laugh, you ain’t always got to sit there trying to impress each other while stuffing your face...

 

[rigor79]

Is a restaurant the only place you can think of for a date ? Bit fucking boring if you ask me. Go to the races, paint balling, the zoo, have a laugh, you ain’t always got to sit there trying to impress each other while stuffing your face...

one of those moments where you actually have the time to look each other into the face and be intimate and romant or to talk?
on races, airshows or horse races or whatever .. there is too to much distraction but i follow your reasoning .. true ..

 

[Swamp-Duck]

Is a restaurant the only place you can think of for a date ? Bit fucking boring if you ask me. Go to the races, paint balling, the zoo, have a laugh, you ain’t always got to sit there trying to impress each other while stuffing your face...

one of those moments where you actually have the time to look each other into the face and be intimate and romant or to talk?
on races, airshows or horse races or whatever .. there is too to much distraction but i follow your reasoning .. true ..

I met my late old man out side a gig, we arranged to meet up and went bowling, I had never done it before and he was crap at it , we had the best laugh it was great, that cemented it for me. I’ve never been that comfortable with all the mushy stuff...

 

[rigor79]

Is a restaurant the only place you can think of for a date ? Bit fucking boring if you ask me. Go to the races, paint balling, the zoo, have a laugh, you ain’t always got to sit there trying to impress each other while stuffing your face...

one of those moments where you actually have the time to look each other into the face and be intimate and romant or to talk?
on races, airshows or horse races or whatever .. there is too to much distraction but i follow your reasoning .. true ..

I met my late old man out side a gig, we arranged to meet up and went bowling, I had never done it before and he was crap at it , we had the best laugh it was great, that cemented it for me. I’ve never been that comfortable with all the mushy stuff...

yeah depends what you like ..

 

[Q]

for me, sneaking goodly sips of the sight of her rather impressive cleavage was perfectly satisfying. :)

Filthy bastard! :LMAO2:

 

[Q]

I met my late old man out side a gig, we arranged to meet up and went bowling, I had never done it before and he was crap at it , we had the best laugh it was great, that cemented it for me. I’ve never been that comfortable with all the mushy stuff...

Haha! So you ARE a woman :-)
or a homosexual man.... Darn... I still know nothing!

But what I actually wanted to say: that is the best kind of date. Where you just have fun. And dare to show yourself

 

[skinofevil]

Jayzus. He's a stump headed ignoramus and a simp. Quite a catch, ladies, grab him while you can. lmfao

Who are you talking about?

...asked the stump headed ignoramus in question.

 

[Q]

Jayzus. He's a stump headed ignoramus and a simp. Quite a catch, ladies, grab him while you can. lmfao

Who are you talking about?

...asked the stump headed ignoramus in question.

So you mean me? Well, well, well... Now I should say something insulting back to you, I suppose. But I am not going to do that :devil1:

 

[skinofevil]

Of course you're not; you lack the capacity to.

 

[Q]

Of course you're not; you lack the capacity to.

I am above that. Those were the words you were looking for

 

[Swamp-Duck]

I met my late old man out side a gig, we arranged to meet up and went bowling, I had never done it before and he was crap at it , we had the best laugh it was great, that cemented it for me. I’ve never been that comfortable with all the mushy stuff...

Haha! So you ARE a woman :-)
or a homosexual man.... Darn... I still know nothing!

But what I actually wanted to say: that is the best kind of date. Where you just have fun. And dare to show yourself

Yeah plus’s I don’t like all that poncey food, give me a plate of chip or some mash spuds and I’m happy...

 

[Q]

Haha! So you ARE a woman :-)
or a homosexual man.... Darn... I still know nothing!

But what I actually wanted to say: that is the best kind of date. Where you just have fun. And dare to show yourself

Yeah plus’s I don’t like all that poncey food, give me a plate of chip or some mash spuds and I’m happy...

You can also go out and have dinner in a not-so-fancy-restaurant... McDonalds for example. Or just a cafeteria. It does not have to be fancy, but fancy can also be fun... Sometimes