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Sharona

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My divorce to Trevor was finalized two days ago:SadFace:. i'm not really into being controlled anymore and told how to hold my spoon in public for the 33rd time. i wasnt happy and his outburst at SeaWorld last month still gives me chills. i talked about this a lot of my FB account, but thought u all should know. He was supersweet most of the time, but things like monitoring my POF and Bastard site accounts and he didnt like some of the nasty comments some of u made here so he try to make stay away. He learned what posts counts were and watched mine almost daily from his work computer. It got kinda creepy. He told his friends everything too and i sooooo hate that. He could never get my password although he asked me for it often. One day he grabbed my Galaxy phone when i was logged in and locked himself in the bathroom so he could see who i was talking to on here. He knew there was a lot of porn and thought that i was up to something. He knows i used to be permiscous and try to watch me. Ugggh. His father does this to his mother too!!

i am going to drink more alcohol and go meet people. Downside is i probably need to get a second job so that sucks!! i'm probably going to cut off most of my hair and just be a whore for awhile [not really] haha. but thats another thing Trevor didnt like,,, sex. He thought it was messy and that i was a little too 'carefree'. i hate him. All my friends hate him and are happy that this finally happened and my best friend is flying out here on Monday to stay with me for awhile.
 

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Did you get half of everything of Trevor's.

Can you get him to join up. :Agree1:
 

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there are plenty of things out there that will do the trick without the work. Don't get me wrong I enjoy sex but can live with it.
 
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Sharona

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Trevor's back in my life. We talked at the Burger Barn restaurant last week and he's successfully completed his anger management courses. He seems different and calm, but still likes his beer.

If u were to die this evening w/ no opportunity to communicate w/ anyone, what would u most regret
 

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Trevor's back in my life. We talked at the Burger Barn restaurant last week and he's successfully completed his anger management courses. He seems different and calm, but still likes his beer.

If u were to die this evening w/ no opportunity to communicate w/ anyone, what would u most regret
Real men like beer my lady!
 

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Trevor's back in my life. We talked at the Burger Barn restaurant last week and he's successfully completed his anger management courses. He seems different and calm, but still likes his beer.

If u were to die this evening w/ no opportunity to communicate w/ anyone, what would u most regret

is trevor the garbageman?

* not telling the ppl i loved that i did often enough
 

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Trevor's back in my life. We talked at the Burger Barn restaurant last week and he's successfully completed his anger management courses. He seems different and calm, but still likes his beer.

If u were to die this evening w/ no opportunity to communicate w/ anyone, what would u most regret

My kids have keys to my house, so it would be one of them that fines me ! And they better do it quick before the dog eats my corpse.
 

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Trevor's back in my life. We talked at the Burger Barn restaurant last week and he's successfully completed his anger management courses. He seems different and calm, but still likes his beer.

Some people (YOU)never learn and come back for seconds !

PS-Did you ever think that maybe the problem is you- - - - - - - - -
 
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Sharona

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Trevor's back in my life. We talked at the Burger Barn restaurant last week and he's successfully completed his anger management courses. He seems different and calm, but still likes his beer.

If u were to die this evening w/ no opportunity to communicate w/ anyone, what would u most regret

is trevor the garbageman?

* not telling the ppl i loved that i did often enough

excuse me?? uh noo. he makes good money inspecting fire extinguishers and typical safety codes for buildings.
pretty successful either way, a woman earns 78 cents for every dollar a man makes.

Trevor's back in my life. We talked at the Burger Barn restaurant last week and he's successfully completed his anger management courses. He seems different and calm, but still likes his beer.

Some people (YOU)never learn and come back for seconds !

PS-Did you ever think that maybe the problem is you- - - - - - - - -

nobody needs to live w a mans temper
 

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Trevor's back in my life. We talked at the Burger Barn restaurant last week and he's successfully completed his anger management courses. He seems different and calm, but still likes his beer.

If u were to die this evening w/ no opportunity to communicate w/ anyone, what would u most regret
I have read your first message in the thread and now this....? Please start reading the first message again. And then THINK about it. Some men are just assholes and will never change. Please decide for yourself which type Trevor is, because to me it sounds like you made a wrong decision (based on the little info I have of course, but still... - just trying to help)
 

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My divorce to Trevor was finalized two days ago:SadFace:. i'm not really into being controlled anymore and told how to hold my spoon in public for the 33rd time. i wasnt happy and his outburst at SeaWorld last month still gives me chills. i talked about this a lot of my FB account, but thought u all should know. He was supersweet most of the time, but things like monitoring my POF and Bastard site accounts and he didnt like some of the nasty comments some of u made here so he try to make stay away. He learned what posts counts were and watched mine almost daily from his work computer. It got kinda creepy. He told his friends everything too and i sooooo hate that. He could never get my password although he asked me for it often. One day he grabbed my Galaxy phone when i was logged in and locked himself in the bathroom so he could see who i was talking to on here. He knew there was a lot of porn and thought that i was up to something. He knows i used to be permiscous and try to watch me. Ugggh. His father does this to his mother too!!

i am going to drink more alcohol and go meet people. Downside is i probably need to get a second job so that sucks!! i'm probably going to cut off most of my hair and just be a whore for awhile [not really] haha. but thats another thing Trevor didnt like,,, sex. He thought it was messy and that i was a little too 'carefree'. i hate him. All my friends hate him and are happy that this finally happened and my best friend is flying out here on Monday to stay with me for awhile.
The first mistake after your breakup, was sharing the details & drama on Facebook. That’s a serious NO-NO if ever there was one. He already knows that you gossip, but by doing it so publicly, is seriously going to impede your chances with any other future mate. Or at least an intelligent one...
 
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Everybody can't be the Chief - - - - - - -
 

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You should see some of the chicks out there; seriously damaged goods. It’s been a wild ride, and some depleted bank accounts, but thank fuck I finally found my forever soul mate. 15 years together and as strong as ever. Love you to bits Mrs Breakfall my love XXXX
 

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I am a two time survivor of egotistical men and their endless dirty laundry.
boohoo bitch! You could bene from my wife's skills. She NEVER EVER EVER TELLS ME WHAT TO DO! Bitch, you tell me what to do and I HAVE to piss you off, even if it destroys humanity. Its how it works. You just arent educated. I'll be the first one to admit too, I'm COMPLETELY pussy whipped by my wife. Shes a fukin 6th degree black belt in the shit.
 

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A guy that doesn't like sex??? That's weird.

Some men actually weaponize sex and will use it as a form of control.

With holding sex. Shaming you for wanting sex. Making you feel bad for having sexual urges.

I went through something similar with a rebound boyfriend I had. The whole relationship was a huge mistake, but thankfully it didnt last long and there was no marriage.

Controling men are awful. They'll destroy your self esteem entirely if you let them....which most women will because women are naturally more loving and vulnerable in relationships. (Generals....I know there are fucked up abusive women who are controling and weaponize sex)

Damn this is an old post lol. Oh well I'll respond anyway.
 

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A guy that doesn't like sex??? That's weird.

Some men actually weaponize sex and will use it as a form of control.

With holding sex. Shaming you for wanting sex. Making you feel bad for having sexual urges.

I went through something similar with a rebound boyfriend I had. The whole relationship was a huge mistake, but thankfully it didnt last long and there was no marriage.

Controling men are awful. They'll destroy your self esteem entirely if you let them....which most women will because women are naturally more loving and vulnerable in relationships. (Generals....I know there are fucked up abusive women who are controling and weaponize sex)

Damn this is an old post lol. Oh well I'll respond anyway.
I think any man that withholds sex is a latent homosexual that has a token wife/girlfriend to fit into hetero society. Latent homosexual politicians, particularly the far left, use this debased tactic all the time so they secure the religious voters. Very hommus!
 

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A guy that doesn't like sex??? That's weird.

Some men actually weaponize sex and will use it as a form of control.

With holding sex. Shaming you for wanting sex. Making you feel bad for having sexual urges.

I went through something similar with a rebound boyfriend I had. The whole relationship was a huge mistake, but thankfully it didnt last long and there was no marriage.

Controling men are awful. They'll destroy your self esteem entirely if you let them....which most women will because women are naturally more loving and vulnerable in relationships. (Generals....I know there are fucked up abusive women who are controling and weaponize sex)

Damn this is an old post lol. Oh well I'll respond anyway.
I think any man that withholds sex is a latent homosexual that has a token wife/girlfriend to fit into hetero society. Latent homosexual politicians, particularly the far left, use this debased tactic all the time so they secure the religious voters. Very hommus!

He is a leftist too lol.

Seriously my male friends said the same thing. So did Big.....actually Big flat out told me that asshole was trying to train me.

I wasnt "allowed" to talk to Big either but I fucking did anyway. :D