He always called me his future ex wife lol. He had been like 8 times.
....I think he was just projecting his fantasies on you, Dovey.
He was just probably reminiscing about his youth wishing he was young, carefree again & had no worries or responsibilities in the world. And you provided him with that escapist outlet. Maybe you reminded him of someone in his youth whom he had a fancy for.
A happy memory from his past.
Most sensible men realize the stripper is just a fantasy & an illusion.
...Nothing more.
It was more a joke about how he may as well just buy me a house and skip all the in between. He was wasting a lot of money on me anyway
...so you're probably laughing at him cuz he was old & looked like yer grandpa, eh?
Nah not really lol. I actually liked him a lot as a person. He was the only regular who knew my real name (my fake "real" name was Sarah....close to my actual name so I wouldnt forget it) and my personal email and phone number.
He was just a very successful older man (in his 60s... he is probably dead by now) who wasnt married or very attached and really enjoyed the company of crazy younger women.
He never tried to solicite sex, or try to get a girlfriend, he legitimately just like hanging out with younger women. He was funny. He was clearly in his 60s, smaller guy, always very clean and well dressed and well spoken. Very witty.
If anything I kinda felt bad for him because he obviously craved female attention but was just unable to maintain meaningful relationships. He was narcissistic or anything. Just not big on monogamy. He had a few adult kids who lived in other states but he was close with them. He would show off his squishy grandbabies pictures to a table full of strippers lol
He said I was his favorite because I never called him ...hahaha. A lot of girls would call their regulars to ask them to come in if they were having a bad night. I never did that. I dont know why....money is money....but I just felt like that is rude as fuck, you know? I couldnt ever bring myself to do that. Calling up a guy and getting him to come in and give you money because it's a shitty night? "Hey my night sucks, I'm a big pouty fucking loser with a shitty attitude, why dont you come on in and just give me your money".
And I always thought, well what if I did that, got my regular in.....and a customer comes in I would have made MORE with? Or what if it picks up and I'm stuck with just this guy? Because I felt if I called him in, he would be MY guest and I would HAVE to spend all my time with him and I could end up doing "okay" and miss doing really GOOD.
Well this guy really liked this about me. He said it made him feel compelled to come in to make sure I was having a good night :D
It was the older more professional men that really liked me. I mean younger ones liked me too.....but the older ones were the ones I did the best with. I used to get asked to dinners and conferences and all kinds of shit. And I did go a couple times but only with the men I knew were safe and they understood very clearly that I was not going to be sleeping with them. (You cant blame them for thinking or hoping that's on the table.....i was a stripper, and i know a handful of girls would "side gig" as escorts...so the few times I DID go I made sure ahead of time they knew). It was just with that pharmacist guy and then a fertility doctor who was also a regular.
So I was used to older men, I preferred the older men, the older men preferred me and I never laughed at them or thought poorly of them.
It was mostly men in their 20s and 30s who could be really gross and problematic. The ones who were predatory or did really disgusting shit and asked for disgusting shit were men in their late 30s and early 40s. Like ones masturbating in the corner, or pulling out their gross dicks in VIP rooms, or the guy who used to beg the strippers for a medical sample cup of piss....that he would bring.. .so he could DRINK it. For 200 bucks, this jack ass wanted to drink your pee.