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Yup. I don't believe she was depressed. She was just kind of... lazy I guess when it came to certain things.Seriously?!
I hear men complain about this a lot. I feel like its anecdotal evidence women in general are more depressed today than they used to be.
I cant stand a dirty house or not doing chores. UNLESS I'm depressed.....but I still force myself to do it and I'll feel better.
I know if my house is messy and I dont feel like cleaning it.....that's when I NEED to push myself and do it.
Depressed people tend to be lazy. I've known a couple women who couldnt seem to keep their house clean. I'm talking piles of laundry. Dirty dishes over flowing. Garbage and shit. I had a friend who was so bad I couldnt even hang out at her house anymore.
I would actually start cleaning while we talked. It apparently pissed her husband off because it was my friends job. I was just trying to help.
They are divorced now and she went through treatment and is MUCH better.