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....so they went ahead with it and recently gave birth to a baby girl
However, the donor wasn't the same as the birth mother.
I think it's kinda dicey actually.
Like what happens if the child doesn't identify with either of the men who are officially recognized as her 'family'?
What happens if the daughter wants her mommy instead?
And I wonder if it's the birth mother who was implanted with the egg or the donor who becomes the one withe child ends up identifying with?
What's your opinion or experience with these arrangements?
I think there are problems brewing down the road, but that's jes my opinion.
Any thoughts?
However, the donor wasn't the same as the birth mother.
I think it's kinda dicey actually.
Like what happens if the child doesn't identify with either of the men who are officially recognized as her 'family'?
What happens if the daughter wants her mommy instead?
And I wonder if it's the birth mother who was implanted with the egg or the donor who becomes the one withe child ends up identifying with?
What's your opinion or experience with these arrangements?
I think there are problems brewing down the road, but that's jes my opinion.
Any thoughts?