Lily
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Dove talking about her past relationships is not a weakness to be exploited for quoted replies & rebukes. It's a power to be embraced. She's far from immature in that she can talk about it freely because she has moved on and is free from it.
Would you admonish someone who said they got sucked into a cult by saying they would fall right back into the same trap if not for developing a myth that they are the hero or heroine by escaping said horseshit cult?
Telling people to get therapy is like telling people to rent storage space.
Life is short. Death is forever. Mental and/or physical baggage is bullshit. Don't pay to store it or unload it to a "professional" therapist in a physical locker nor a verbal handoff. Fuck fees.
Drop it. And move the fuck on.
Look around your neighborhood at how many people pay to store the shit they will never live long enough to use or pay to spout the shit to a stranger who will never live long enough to give them the true satisfaction Dove has found by just letting that shit go for FREE.
I am both stupified & amazed by the beauty & resilience of the human heart & spirit.
Talking about it to strangers online is not freedom from pain, it's a lack of boundaries.
Talk to people that know and understand you, where it means something. There's always support groups and professionals as well.
This is not the place.