The Return of Biggie

[Lily]

Dove talking about her past relationships is not a weakness to be exploited for quoted replies & rebukes. It's a power to be embraced. She's far from immature in that she can talk about it freely because she has moved on and is free from it.

Would you admonish someone who said they got sucked into a cult by saying they would fall right back into the same trap if not for developing a myth that they are the hero or heroine by escaping said horseshit cult?

Telling people to get therapy is like telling people to rent storage space.

Life is short. Death is forever. Mental and/or physical baggage is bullshit. Don't pay to store it or unload it to a "professional" therapist in a physical locker nor a verbal handoff. Fuck fees.

Drop it. And move the fuck on.

Look around your neighborhood at how many people pay to store the shit they will never live long enough to use or pay to spout the shit to a stranger who will never live long enough to give them the true satisfaction Dove has found by just letting that shit go for FREE.

I am both stupified & amazed by the beauty & resilience of the human heart & spirit.

Talking about it to strangers online is not freedom from pain, it's a lack of boundaries.

Talk to people that know and understand you, where it means something. There's always support groups and professionals as well.

This is not the place.

 

[Admin.]

Dove talking about her past relationships is not a weakness to be exploited for quoted replies & rebukes. It's a power to be embraced. She's far from immature in that she can talk about it freely because she has moved on and is free from it.

Would you admonish someone who said they got sucked into a cult by saying they would fall right back into the same trap if not for developing a myth that they are the hero or heroine by escaping said horseshit cult?

Telling people to get therapy is like telling people to rent storage space.

Life is short. Death is forever. Mental and/or physical baggage is bullshit. Don't pay to store it or unload it to a "professional" therapist in a physical locker nor a verbal handoff. Fuck fees.

Drop it. And move the fuck on.

Look around your neighborhood at how many people pay to store the shit they will never live long enough to use or pay to spout the shit to a stranger who will never live long enough to give them the true satisfaction Dove has found by just letting that shit go for FREE.

I am both stupified & amazed by the beauty & resilience of the human heart & spirit.

Is Duh’v pegging you now?

 

[wizer]

True, but if it's an automatic, there's no options.

There are no options to disable an automatic transmission vehicle other than removing the starter?

Who knew.

I guess removing the battery or ripping out the spark plugs or flattening two tires is an unimaginable feat.

 

[Seamajor]

Girls only bet on slot machines...

You’d know

 

[The Best Holliday]

Death is forever

No it ain't. STFU. Who lied to you? Was it Google AI?

Drop it.

STFU some more. It is long dropped, pedro.
. No one cares. No one ever cared.
We just wanted to see how long the thing would carry on for.
Answer: As long as you pay attention to it, on will it prattle.

Now for the music:

 

[Adam Hitler]

Is Duh’v pegging you now?

Do you ever think about anything else apart from anal sex?

 

[Dove]

There are much faster and easier ways to disable a vehicle than removing the starter.

I dont even know he did it. Im not evrn 100 percent sure it was the starter. It was a nessesary car part. He also dumped some abrasive liquid into my transmission. Hecame in and plopped a car part i assume was the starter on the living room floor. Then lit a cigarette. I never allowed smoking inside and i had a toddler and a newborn inside. He did not care.

Every 5 years he tries to get ahold of me to try to 'make ammends' and i dont bother responding.

 

[Dove]

Talking about it to strangers online is not freedom from pain, it's a lack of boundaries.

Talk to people that know and understand you, where it means something. There's always support groups and professionals as well.

This is not the place.

Its poor boundaries to decide for another person what they should be comfortable sharing on a forum.

You have ZERO concern with boundaries when you are using private conversations, giving out phone numbers, and cheering someone when they drag a bunch of nonsense about other peoples lives to the forum. Or two spiteful men who start asking questions about my first two marriages just so they could stick up for cheaters.

But as soon as i show im not in thr slightest bit bothered by any of it and that i have no issues talking about it...suddenly you care about boundaries lmao. If its "not the place' for me to discuss it, then it isnt the place for others to repeatedly ask. Typical of abusers to feel entitled to ask personal questions in an attempt to craft a narrative or as Mr NG observered, exploit some perceived weakness. Then whine when it doesnt work.

Things i went through 20 years ago that i survived? I have no problem with it. You should worry your own lack of boundaries. Lord knows plenty of other posters have felt and said these boards are not the place for the shit you do.

Know this. If you little knob slobbing shit weasles start asking me questions or trying to weaponize things i have survived in life, i have NO problem openly discussing it.

Its what you guys want, right? Its all you miserable fucks ever talk about when you see me. You cant get enough of Doveys real life ♡

 

[Lily]

Its poor boundaries to decide for another person what they should be comfortable sharing on a forum.

You have ZERO concern with boundaries when you are using private conversations, giving out phone numbers, and cheering someone when they drag a bunch of nonsense about other peoples lives to the forum. Or two spiteful men who start asking questions about my first two marriages just so they could stick up for cheaters is okay.

But as soon as i show im not in thr slightest bit bothered by any of it and that i have no issues talking about it...suddenly you care about boundaries lmao.

Things i went through 20 years ago that i survived? I have no problem with it. You should worry your own lack of boundaries.

It's common knowledge actually. Any sane therapist would tell you so.