Play a role, don't play a role, that's irrelevant. It's about taking shit too seriously. As I said I got no dog in this fight but reading that exchange between you and BF yesterday makes it clear
like I said I was there, I get it. It's not doing you any good. Disconnect a bit. Laugh at it. It's just a bunch of chronological adults acting like preschoolers
You sound like a disgruntled fired employee that thinks he did a great job but everyone conspired against him for some unknown reason that wasn't his fault
A lot of this WAS your fault. Publically bitching about moderating, tagging Admin when you thought posts were over the top (which they weren't), thread banning people after WARNING them
I'm doing it now to avoid a bigger problem later. It's inherited. My dad had it. He waited until his finger was like a claw and had major surgery on his hand and a long recovery.