So like I said, you might consider backing off this little aspect of bullshit you're tossing about. You're really just asking for the kind of trouble you don't want.
Um no he didn't. And with this: Fredricka: Orrrr, i could name and shame you, oooo You are threatening to break the PI rule, and YOU"RE A MOD, supposedly.
True enough that I'm not on staff - I've made it clear several times that I decline to take an official, known staff position. That doesn't mean I have zero input, however.
I recommend that you get in touch with BF and check. You're behaving in an extremely childish manner which is not becoming of a staff member. If you can't reform, you should be removed from staff.