But to get back to me, around the early 90's my Dad had made contact with a couple of his old 'cousins' but more like second cousins etc but still family...I think we did 2 years in a row, then skipped a year or there wasn't one ??? then Dad me and my young son went to meet my dad and his wife at 'our' family reunion....I forget but I think it was like a couple of my Grand Uncles id never met, they'd had both adopted several Korean orphans, I was early 30ish, my boy 3ish one of the old ones I knew pointed over to the ball park not too far away and told me your cousins are over there "Sir Name" some white boys I thought I recognized and then a dozen or so asiatic boys, my cousins? Yup by adoption they were legally a facet of me.