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[Lily]

Don't worry about it @RANCIDMILKO ™ ®© I wield more power over them silently.

 

[Jack]

"Lily is trying to be a different person" Yeah that veneer is like cellophane

 

[LotusBud]

it was a really, really rough day. I have to take a bunch of melatonin in order to sleep.

 

[Lily]

It's been amusing to watch their chimp antics.

 

[Fredricka]

New lili is boring

 

[Jack]

Yes, your stench really is powerful

 

[MANCID RILKO]

@LotusBud sorry to hear that

 

[Jack]

and its been amusing to watch you be a total hypocrite.

 

[Lily]

What's up, Lotus?

 

[Jack]

quite amusing actually. who knew you wer sucj a fake

 

[Jack]

quite amusing actually. who knew you were such a fake

 

[LotusBud]

Thanks, Rancy. Wow. I feel like I've been through the wringer. One of my neighbor's is in the care home now, and very sad about it. Went to visit her today. So rough.

 

[Lily]

Is she despondent?

 

[MANCID RILKO]

Yeah, really not nice seeing a friend going to a nursing home

 

[MANCID RILKO]

It makes sadder because that's the last step before leaving this world

 

[LotusBud]

Yes. And so is her sister. And the village is totally different now. Totally.

 

[MANCID RILKO]

My ex-wife's granny was having several problems living by herself

 

[MANCID RILKO]

The pretty much forced her to go live with a daughter, but she passed away within 6 months

 

[LotusBud]

Today she was just sobbing and I was hugging her and I felt like screaming and crying when I left, but couldn't because of ehr sister.

 

[Lily]

That is very sad. It's too bad no one was able to live and take care of her. My grandma died at home, never went to a home. Thank God.

 

[MANCID RILKO]

Leaving them by themselves is not safe, but removing them from their environment tends to make things worse

 

[Jack]

That's awful @LotusBud. Must have been tough to be present.

 

[MANCID RILKO]

Life is just full of unfairness, everywhere you look

 

[Jack]

Truth

 

[MANCID RILKO]

Even all the love and care in the world can't fix thing like very advanced age

 

[LotusBud]

I think it's better for them to die in their own homes, even if they die in there by accident. The people in the care home are not happy. At least at her house she felt in control of her life, and lots of people visited her all the time. She has only one child and he and his wife and their daughter all work.

 

[MANCID RILKO]

Even all the love and care in the world can't fix things like very advanced age

 

[Lily]

It's too small a family for her to have remained at home.

 

[LotusBud]

Yes, @RANCIDMILKO ™ ®© . it's terrible.

 

[Admin.]

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