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The pig on two feet has no boundaries whatsoever. Always crying in the backchannels about everything.Lets face it Shartini, you've got absolutely sweet fuck all to be "narcissistic' about.
Quite the opposite in fact, most people would be ashamed to be in your situation.
Actual narcissists never do.
People with disordered narcissism are acting out of deep shame and insecurity. They are pathological liars. Its predictable he would try to make the observation of his narcissism into some meaningless "meme" . They never ever take responsibility for their words or actions.
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The Narcissist's Prayer
Supriya McKenna
The Narcissist's Prayer
That didn't happen.
And if it did, it wasn't that bad.
And if it was, that's not a big deal.
And if it is, that's not my fault.
And if it was, I didn't mean it.
And if I did, you deserved it.
The Narcissist's Prayer (by Dayna Craig) beautifully illustrates the inner workings of the narcissistic mind. Denial, gaslighting, minimising poor behaviour, blameshifting and shamedumping all feature in this one simple verse, all hallmarks of covert emotional abuse. To a narcissist the 'truth' is not seen as a finite, fixed entity, but as being malleable - as being whatever the narcissist says it is, at the time they say it. The truth is simply whatever serves the narcissist at that particular time"
Does this look familiar? It's also describing Oak.
The irony is sublime.
There is no irony here. Just more of your typical narcissist blame shifting.
It's literally expected for you guys to pull a "no yuo!" when called out on how you behave.
No one made you text me on Jan 6th and tell me that "my people" were "out of control" and then show up to a forum parenting to be someone else and picking nasty fights. No one made you text bomb Flea and start some huge drama on a board over something so unimportant.
I'm sure you have all sorts of made up grievances all filed un your self absorbed head that you believe justifies the shitty way you treat other people. You like to call upon them instead of just simply taking responsibility for your own bullshit.
All the same applies to your new buddy, Plynn. It's such text book narcissism it's ridiculous. And it's obvious regardless of what you tell yourself.
It's always someone else's fault. They are always the victim of other people's perceived wrongs. But whenever someone has a problem with them....they accuse the person of "playing victim" or "whining".
You can't ever expect people like this to ever do better or genuinely connect with and understand others. Bad boundaries and no empathy. It's entirely all about their "image" they seek to project.