I may be 47 but I look, act, and move like I'm 32....

[Joe]

Yes. I had sex on the first date. It was my damn birthday and I was not gonna get serious with him (lol)

Actually I agree with that practice @Dove y.

Try each other out 1st to see if there's any compatiblity or not.

Premarital sex & living together should be the norm.

I know many of your fellow Christians may not agree tho.

I strongly disagree.

Its best and ideal to spend time getting to know someone before you involve sex. Sex releases bonding chemicals in the brain and it can really muddy up the waters when you are trying to decide if you want to commit yourself to that person.

You dont want to get too emotionally involved too soon. This is how people trauma bond and end up in abusive relationships.

Human being really are not like cars you should "test drive". If you focus on and foster a healthy bond and really get to know eachother without sex.....you will have both a better relationship AND better sex.

I'm not saying you will ruin your relationship by sleeping together too soon. I'm just saying its easier to get hooked into an unhealthy and abusive relationship. You'll over look things you shouldnt when you are having sex.

But...but...didn't you just say you had sex on a first date @Dove y?!?

Seems like a double standard ta me! ;D

Yes I did, and no.... it's not a double standard at all.

After I said I had sex on the first date, I gave two reasons. First one was that it was my birthday. Second was.....I wasnt planning on getting serious with anyone.

It's not at all a double standard and what I said was the truth. You want to get serious with someone....its BEST to wait to have sex, so you can really get to know them and make a solid decision on whether or not you should commit to that person. You have much clearer thinking about it if you havent involved sex and started that bonding before you know if they are good for you or capable of the kind of relationship you want.

I had no intention of fostering a serious relationship with him. So hanging out once in a while and having casual sex on occasion wasnt a big deal because I wasnt trying or aiming for commitment. To me, there were no waters to muddy. We both established that neither of us wanted a serious relationship. He was even dating someone else. Actually he was dating a few women at that time....albeit not on a serious level yet.

I also didnt say that having sex too soon will sabotage a relationship with that person either. I'm only pointing out that starting a sexual relationship with someone you are interested in having a committed relationship with will complicate your decision making. Because if you are getting to know them while having sexual relationship, the sex will cloud your thinking and bond you too soon.

Things that would normally be a red flag that would cause you to back away.....you are more likely to over look or excuse if you have a sexual relationship with that person.

You understand what I'm saying? You have to guard your heart. People get love bombed and start having sex too soon, they can easily end up in an abusive and toxic relationship because they over looked all the red flags. If you are not having sex yet and those red flags pop up? You arent so invested where you'll over look it. You are more likely to allow yourself to be lied too and more likely to ignore your intuition and gaslight yourself if you are already sleeping with them.

Understand what I'm saying? Sex will never just be a "test drive". Its a whole bonding experience. It releases chemicals in your brain that serve to bond you to that person. Once or twice....you can get away with it with no strings. Make it a habit, all that time you would have been talking and building a relationship will be spent having sex and chemically bonding to that person.

Also I'll go ahead and add in that once I entered rehab.....I didnt see or speak to my husband for 2 months. After I detoxed and had a few weeks in a rehab, I went to a year long in house program. He would come to church and have dinner with me and my daughter every night and the mission. Then we started getting couples counseling there. We were married before we ever had sex again. So there was like....9 months of just talking and counseling.

I don't care if you or anyone else has CONSENSUAL sex on a 1st date. And I just think it's a good way to find out to see if there's any compatiblity or not.

Similarly I don't feel there's anything wrong with anyone who VOLUNTARILY & LEGALLY sells sex for a living either.

Our collective North American Society is too uptight & have too many double standards.

Cool. My post had nothing to do with caring about who has sex on the first date or not. My post was about how having sex too soon will impact whatever relationship you are trying to build.

I'm saying if you want crash and burn toxic and abusive relationships.....by all means, start fucking asap. You only hurt yourself. Just own it when it fails horribly. Dont go doing the whole "the signs were there...I didnt see them". Because that bullshit, you did see them. But you were sleeping with that person so you over looked them. That toxic relationship is now something you actively engaged in.

It's like I could sit here and tell you all the reasons why abusing opiates is bad for you, and you would respond with "I dont care who does it"......like.....okay? I didnt say you did. I'm saying why its unhealthy and bad for you to do it. You hear that and still do it? Dont complain when you reap the harvest you were warned about.

And legal sex works abandones young girls and enslaved women to the streets because police wont be able to pick them up and get them help. The only thing that saved a friend of mine was her getting arrested for prostitution. She had been raped 87 times in one weekend and had extensive internal injuries and would have died. If prostitution was legal? She would be just another dead hooker on the bottom of the Detroit river. But as long as men can get a quick blow job in a parking lot before going home to play husband and father.... who cares, right? We shouldnt be prudes.

But as long as people view sex in such a narcissistic way....we will continue to have a cruel, hedonistic society that lacks empathy and doeant regard humans as anything of value.

Well you yearn for an era & society like my parent's or your grandmothers time.

But that society and the social mores which went along with it doesn't exist anymore. For better or worse, relationships, even marriage, have almost turned into a Darwinian form of Natural Selection.

Survival of the Fittest eh @Dove y.

Given this reality, I'm more inclined to support a looser more 'libertarian' laissez-faire attitude or approach. I know that seems to offend a lot of conservatives, but I also think they are also pushing an unrealistic ideal.

 

[Joe]

Anyway I don't use drugs nor have any desire to even tho my city Vancouver is one of the major drug meccas in North America.

The sex trade does a brisk business in Vancouver as I often see escorts plying their trade dt tho they are discrete about it in this day & age. Use to be they'd stand on street corners eh.

Now they just use their cellphones.

 

[Dove]

Yes. I had sex on the first date. It was my damn birthday and I was not gonna get serious with him (lol)

Actually I agree with that practice @Dove y.

Try each other out 1st to see if there's any compatiblity or not.

Premarital sex & living together should be the norm.

I know many of your fellow Christians may not agree tho.

I strongly disagree.

Its best and ideal to spend time getting to know someone before you involve sex. Sex releases bonding chemicals in the brain and it can really muddy up the waters when you are trying to decide if you want to commit yourself to that person.

You dont want to get too emotionally involved too soon. This is how people trauma bond and end up in abusive relationships.

Human being really are not like cars you should "test drive". If you focus on and foster a healthy bond and really get to know eachother without sex.....you will have both a better relationship AND better sex.

I'm not saying you will ruin your relationship by sleeping together too soon. I'm just saying its easier to get hooked into an unhealthy and abusive relationship. You'll over look things you shouldnt when you are having sex.

But...but...didn't you just say you had sex on a first date @Dove y?!?

Seems like a double standard ta me! ;D

Yes I did, and no.... it's not a double standard at all.

After I said I had sex on the first date, I gave two reasons. First one was that it was my birthday. Second was.....I wasnt planning on getting serious with anyone.

It's not at all a double standard and what I said was the truth. You want to get serious with someone....its BEST to wait to have sex, so you can really get to know them and make a solid decision on whether or not you should commit to that person. You have much clearer thinking about it if you havent involved sex and started that bonding before you know if they are good for you or capable of the kind of relationship you want.

I had no intention of fostering a serious relationship with him. So hanging out once in a while and having casual sex on occasion wasnt a big deal because I wasnt trying or aiming for commitment. To me, there were no waters to muddy. We both established that neither of us wanted a serious relationship. He was even dating someone else. Actually he was dating a few women at that time....albeit not on a serious level yet.

I also didnt say that having sex too soon will sabotage a relationship with that person either. I'm only pointing out that starting a sexual relationship with someone you are interested in having a committed relationship with will complicate your decision making. Because if you are getting to know them while having sexual relationship, the sex will cloud your thinking and bond you too soon.

Things that would normally be a red flag that would cause you to back away.....you are more likely to over look or excuse if you have a sexual relationship with that person.

You understand what I'm saying? You have to guard your heart. People get love bombed and start having sex too soon, they can easily end up in an abusive and toxic relationship because they over looked all the red flags. If you are not having sex yet and those red flags pop up? You arent so invested where you'll over look it. You are more likely to allow yourself to be lied too and more likely to ignore your intuition and gaslight yourself if you are already sleeping with them.

Understand what I'm saying? Sex will never just be a "test drive". Its a whole bonding experience. It releases chemicals in your brain that serve to bond you to that person. Once or twice....you can get away with it with no strings. Make it a habit, all that time you would have been talking and building a relationship will be spent having sex and chemically bonding to that person.

Also I'll go ahead and add in that once I entered rehab.....I didnt see or speak to my husband for 2 months. After I detoxed and had a few weeks in a rehab, I went to a year long in house program. He would come to church and have dinner with me and my daughter every night and the mission. Then we started getting couples counseling there. We were married before we ever had sex again. So there was like....9 months of just talking and counseling.

I don't care if you or anyone else has CONSENSUAL sex on a 1st date. And I just think it's a good way to find out to see if there's any compatiblity or not.

Similarly I don't feel there's anything wrong with anyone who VOLUNTARILY & LEGALLY sells sex for a living either.

Our collective North American Society is too uptight & have too many double standards.

Cool. My post had nothing to do with caring about who has sex on the first date or not. My post was about how having sex too soon will impact whatever relationship you are trying to build.

I'm saying if you want crash and burn toxic and abusive relationships.....by all means, start fucking asap. You only hurt yourself. Just own it when it fails horribly. Dont go doing the whole "the signs were there...I didnt see them". Because that bullshit, you did see them. But you were sleeping with that person so you over looked them. That toxic relationship is now something you actively engaged in.

It's like I could sit here and tell you all the reasons why abusing opiates is bad for you, and you would respond with "I dont care who does it"......like.....okay? I didnt say you did. I'm saying why its unhealthy and bad for you to do it. You hear that and still do it? Dont complain when you reap the harvest you were warned about.

And legal sex works abandones young girls and enslaved women to the streets because police wont be able to pick them up and get them help. The only thing that saved a friend of mine was her getting arrested for prostitution. She had been raped 87 times in one weekend and had extensive internal injuries and would have died. If prostitution was legal? She would be just another dead hooker on the bottom of the Detroit river. But as long as men can get a quick blow job in a parking lot before going home to play husband and father.... who cares, right? We shouldnt be prudes.

But as long as people view sex in such a narcissistic way....we will continue to have a cruel, hedonistic society that lacks empathy and doeant regard humans as anything of value.

Well you yearn for an era & society like my parent's or your grandmothers time.

But that society and the social mores which went along with it doesn't exist anymore. For better or worse, relationships, even marriage, have almost turned into a Darwinian form of Natural Selection.

Survival of the Fittest eh.

Given this reality, I'm more inclined to support a looser more 'libertarian' laissez-faire attitude. I know that seems to offend a lot of conservatives, but I also think they are pushing an unrealistic ideal.

Before the fall of a society, you see hedonism. This is just going backwards.

And I'm talking about individual choices. How to get better results. I'm not sure where you are getting this "libertarian" things from.

There is always going to be a healthy and proper way to accomplish something you want. And if you want a healthy and committed long term relationship, you will significantly up those odds by waiting to have sex.

That's not gonna change ever. We are not built that way. If you wanna bond yourself to a psychopath who is gonna fuck your friends, bleed you dry, destroy your life? Remember ... YOU let them. You wont have the victim card. You chose to overlook those signs and red flags so you could get your dick wet. You did not invest wisely.

Simple as that. Again.....you only hurt yourself and your goals.

It's like spending your paycheck buying lottery tickets expecting to get rich. Sure you could....but it ain't likely and you are better off saving your money.

 

[Joe]

Yes. I had sex on the first date. It was my damn birthday and I was not gonna get serious with him (lol)

Actually I agree with that practice @Dove y.

Try each other out 1st to see if there's any compatiblity or not.

Premarital sex & living together should be the norm.

I know many of your fellow Christians may not agree tho.

I strongly disagree.

Its best and ideal to spend time getting to know someone before you involve sex. Sex releases bonding chemicals in the brain and it can really muddy up the waters when you are trying to decide if you want to commit yourself to that person.

You dont want to get too emotionally involved too soon. This is how people trauma bond and end up in abusive relationships.

Human being really are not like cars you should "test drive". If you focus on and foster a healthy bond and really get to know eachother without sex.....you will have both a better relationship AND better sex.

I'm not saying you will ruin your relationship by sleeping together too soon. I'm just saying its easier to get hooked into an unhealthy and abusive relationship. You'll over look things you shouldnt when you are having sex.

But...but...didn't you just say you had sex on a first date @Dove y?!?

Seems like a double standard ta me! ;D

Yes I did, and no.... it's not a double standard at all.

After I said I had sex on the first date, I gave two reasons. First one was that it was my birthday. Second was.....I wasnt planning on getting serious with anyone.

It's not at all a double standard and what I said was the truth. You want to get serious with someone....its BEST to wait to have sex, so you can really get to know them and make a solid decision on whether or not you should commit to that person. You have much clearer thinking about it if you havent involved sex and started that bonding before you know if they are good for you or capable of the kind of relationship you want.

I had no intention of fostering a serious relationship with him. So hanging out once in a while and having casual sex on occasion wasnt a big deal because I wasnt trying or aiming for commitment. To me, there were no waters to muddy. We both established that neither of us wanted a serious relationship. He was even dating someone else. Actually he was dating a few women at that time....albeit not on a serious level yet.

I also didnt say that having sex too soon will sabotage a relationship with that person either. I'm only pointing out that starting a sexual relationship with someone you are interested in having a committed relationship with will complicate your decision making. Because if you are getting to know them while having sexual relationship, the sex will cloud your thinking and bond you too soon.

Things that would normally be a red flag that would cause you to back away.....you are more likely to over look or excuse if you have a sexual relationship with that person.

You understand what I'm saying? You have to guard your heart. People get love bombed and start having sex too soon, they can easily end up in an abusive and toxic relationship because they over looked all the red flags. If you are not having sex yet and those red flags pop up? You arent so invested where you'll over look it. You are more likely to allow yourself to be lied too and more likely to ignore your intuition and gaslight yourself if you are already sleeping with them.

Understand what I'm saying? Sex will never just be a "test drive". Its a whole bonding experience. It releases chemicals in your brain that serve to bond you to that person. Once or twice....you can get away with it with no strings. Make it a habit, all that time you would have been talking and building a relationship will be spent having sex and chemically bonding to that person.

Also I'll go ahead and add in that once I entered rehab.....I didnt see or speak to my husband for 2 months. After I detoxed and had a few weeks in a rehab, I went to a year long in house program. He would come to church and have dinner with me and my daughter every night and the mission. Then we started getting couples counseling there. We were married before we ever had sex again. So there was like....9 months of just talking and counseling.

I don't care if you or anyone else has CONSENSUAL sex on a 1st date. And I just think it's a good way to find out to see if there's any compatiblity or not.

Similarly I don't feel there's anything wrong with anyone who VOLUNTARILY & LEGALLY sells sex for a living either.

Our collective North American Society is too uptight & have too many double standards.

Cool. My post had nothing to do with caring about who has sex on the first date or not. My post was about how having sex too soon will impact whatever relationship you are trying to build.

I'm saying if you want crash and burn toxic and abusive relationships.....by all means, start fucking asap. You only hurt yourself. Just own it when it fails horribly. Dont go doing the whole "the signs were there...I didnt see them". Because that bullshit, you did see them. But you were sleeping with that person so you over looked them. That toxic relationship is now something you actively engaged in.

It's like I could sit here and tell you all the reasons why abusing opiates is bad for you, and you would respond with "I dont care who does it"......like.....okay? I didnt say you did. I'm saying why its unhealthy and bad for you to do it. You hear that and still do it? Dont complain when you reap the harvest you were warned about.

And legal sex works abandones young girls and enslaved women to the streets because police wont be able to pick them up and get them help. The only thing that saved a friend of mine was her getting arrested for prostitution. She had been raped 87 times in one weekend and had extensive internal injuries and would have died. If prostitution was legal? She would be just another dead hooker on the bottom of the Detroit river. But as long as men can get a quick blow job in a parking lot before going home to play husband and father.... who cares, right? We shouldnt be prudes.

But as long as people view sex in such a narcissistic way....we will continue to have a cruel, hedonistic society that lacks empathy and doeant regard humans as anything of value.

Well you yearn for an era & society like my parent's or your grandmothers time.

But that society and the social mores which went along with it doesn't exist anymore. For better or worse, relationships, even marriage, have almost turned into a Darwinian form of Natural Selection.

Survival of the Fittest eh.

Given this reality, I'm more inclined to support a looser more 'libertarian' laissez-faire attitude. I know that seems to offend a lot of conservatives, but I also think they are pushing an unrealistic ideal.

Before the fall of a society, you see hedonism. This is just going backwards.

And I'm talking about individual choices. How to get better results. I'm not sure where you are getting this "libertarian" things from.

There is always going to be a healthy and proper way to accomplish something you want. And if you want a healthy and committed long term relationship, you will significantly up those odds by waiting to have sex.

That's not gonna change ever. We are not built that way. If you wanna bond yourself to a psychopath who is gonna fuck your friends, bleed you dry, destroy your life? Remember ... YOU let them. You wont have the victim card. You chose to overlook those signs and red flags so you could get your dick wet. You did not invest wisely.

Simple as that. Again.....you only hurt yourself and your goals.

It's like spending your paycheck buying lottery tickets expecting to get rich. Sure you could....but it ain't likely and you are better off saving your money.

Well @Dove y I once 'bonded' with an ultra conservative religious guy who scammed me for several hundred dollars & stole my stuff. And I was gonna help him one day to pay off his debts.

I trusted him like a brother But he knifed me in the back. I didnt even care about the money but more that the guy broke my trust & belief in him.

Seems he did a bit of dilly dallying in his time as he had a case of VD too. But I often remember him preaching about 'morals'. Nice ideals that he pushed...too bad it wasn't true & he couldn't live up to them. And it actually busted me in half & destroyed my faith in people.

So...from that experience I don't trust this old morality or the ones who push it anymore.

Appearances can be deceiving eh.

 

[Dove]

Yes. I had sex on the first date. It was my damn birthday and I was not gonna get serious with him (lol)

Actually I agree with that practice @Dove y.

Try each other out 1st to see if there's any compatiblity or not.

Premarital sex & living together should be the norm.

I know many of your fellow Christians may not agree tho.

I strongly disagree.

Its best and ideal to spend time getting to know someone before you involve sex. Sex releases bonding chemicals in the brain and it can really muddy up the waters when you are trying to decide if you want to commit yourself to that person.

You dont want to get too emotionally involved too soon. This is how people trauma bond and end up in abusive relationships.

Human being really are not like cars you should "test drive". If you focus on and foster a healthy bond and really get to know eachother without sex.....you will have both a better relationship AND better sex.

I'm not saying you will ruin your relationship by sleeping together too soon. I'm just saying its easier to get hooked into an unhealthy and abusive relationship. You'll over look things you shouldnt when you are having sex.

But...but...didn't you just say you had sex on a first date @Dove y?!?

Seems like a double standard ta me! ;D

Yes I did, and no.... it's not a double standard at all.

After I said I had sex on the first date, I gave two reasons. First one was that it was my birthday. Second was.....I wasnt planning on getting serious with anyone.

It's not at all a double standard and what I said was the truth. You want to get serious with someone....its BEST to wait to have sex, so you can really get to know them and make a solid decision on whether or not you should commit to that person. You have much clearer thinking about it if you havent involved sex and started that bonding before you know if they are good for you or capable of the kind of relationship you want.

I had no intention of fostering a serious relationship with him. So hanging out once in a while and having casual sex on occasion wasnt a big deal because I wasnt trying or aiming for commitment. To me, there were no waters to muddy. We both established that neither of us wanted a serious relationship. He was even dating someone else. Actually he was dating a few women at that time....albeit not on a serious level yet.

I also didnt say that having sex too soon will sabotage a relationship with that person either. I'm only pointing out that starting a sexual relationship with someone you are interested in having a committed relationship with will complicate your decision making. Because if you are getting to know them while having sexual relationship, the sex will cloud your thinking and bond you too soon.

Things that would normally be a red flag that would cause you to back away.....you are more likely to over look or excuse if you have a sexual relationship with that person.

You understand what I'm saying? You have to guard your heart. People get love bombed and start having sex too soon, they can easily end up in an abusive and toxic relationship because they over looked all the red flags. If you are not having sex yet and those red flags pop up? You arent so invested where you'll over look it. You are more likely to allow yourself to be lied too and more likely to ignore your intuition and gaslight yourself if you are already sleeping with them.

Understand what I'm saying? Sex will never just be a "test drive". Its a whole bonding experience. It releases chemicals in your brain that serve to bond you to that person. Once or twice....you can get away with it with no strings. Make it a habit, all that time you would have been talking and building a relationship will be spent having sex and chemically bonding to that person.

Also I'll go ahead and add in that once I entered rehab.....I didnt see or speak to my husband for 2 months. After I detoxed and had a few weeks in a rehab, I went to a year long in house program. He would come to church and have dinner with me and my daughter every night and the mission. Then we started getting couples counseling there. We were married before we ever had sex again. So there was like....9 months of just talking and counseling.

I don't care if you or anyone else has CONSENSUAL sex on a 1st date. And I just think it's a good way to find out to see if there's any compatiblity or not.

Similarly I don't feel there's anything wrong with anyone who VOLUNTARILY & LEGALLY sells sex for a living either.

Our collective North American Society is too uptight & have too many double standards.

Cool. My post had nothing to do with caring about who has sex on the first date or not. My post was about how having sex too soon will impact whatever relationship you are trying to build.

I'm saying if you want crash and burn toxic and abusive relationships.....by all means, start fucking asap. You only hurt yourself. Just own it when it fails horribly. Dont go doing the whole "the signs were there...I didnt see them". Because that bullshit, you did see them. But you were sleeping with that person so you over looked them. That toxic relationship is now something you actively engaged in.

It's like I could sit here and tell you all the reasons why abusing opiates is bad for you, and you would respond with "I dont care who does it"......like.....okay? I didnt say you did. I'm saying why its unhealthy and bad for you to do it. You hear that and still do it? Dont complain when you reap the harvest you were warned about.

And legal sex works abandones young girls and enslaved women to the streets because police wont be able to pick them up and get them help. The only thing that saved a friend of mine was her getting arrested for prostitution. She had been raped 87 times in one weekend and had extensive internal injuries and would have died. If prostitution was legal? She would be just another dead hooker on the bottom of the Detroit river. But as long as men can get a quick blow job in a parking lot before going home to play husband and father.... who cares, right? We shouldnt be prudes.

But as long as people view sex in such a narcissistic way....we will continue to have a cruel, hedonistic society that lacks empathy and doeant regard humans as anything of value.

Well you yearn for an era & society like my parent's or your grandmothers time.

But that society and the social mores which went along with it doesn't exist anymore. For better or worse, relationships, even marriage, have almost turned into a Darwinian form of Natural Selection.

Survival of the Fittest eh.

Given this reality, I'm more inclined to support a looser more 'libertarian' laissez-faire attitude. I know that seems to offend a lot of conservatives, but I also think they are pushing an unrealistic ideal.

Before the fall of a society, you see hedonism. This is just going backwards.

And I'm talking about individual choices. How to get better results. I'm not sure where you are getting this "libertarian" things from.

There is always going to be a healthy and proper way to accomplish something you want. And if you want a healthy and committed long term relationship, you will significantly up those odds by waiting to have sex.

That's not gonna change ever. We are not built that way. If you wanna bond yourself to a psychopath who is gonna fuck your friends, bleed you dry, destroy your life? Remember ... YOU let them. You wont have the victim card. You chose to overlook those signs and red flags so you could get your dick wet. You did not invest wisely.

Simple as that. Again.....you only hurt yourself and your goals.

It's like spending your paycheck buying lottery tickets expecting to get rich. Sure you could....but it ain't likely and you are better off saving your money.

Well @Dove y I once 'bonded' with an ultra conservative religious guy who scammed me for several hundred dollars & stole my stuff. And I was gonna help him one day to pay off his debts.

I trusted him like a brother But he knifed me in the back. I didnt even care about the money but more that the guy broke my trust & belief in him.

Seems he did a bit of dilly dallying in his time as he had a case of VD too. But I often remember him preaching about 'morals'. Nice ideals that he pushed...too bad it wasn't true & he couldn't live up to those ideals. And it actually broke my heart.

So...from that experience I don't trust this old morality or the ones who push it anymore.

And what kind of shit did you chose to over look or make excuses for before that climaxed into him fucking you over? I can guarantee there were warning signs you excused. We all do on some level. You gotta learn from that. And concluding that his supposed politcal beliefs or world view was the issue is faulty, and it doesnt help you foster better relationships in the future.

Him being conservative or espousing conservative views is irrelevant. That's not your red flags. Think about the shit that didnt sit right. That stuff you told yourself you weren't gonna make an issue out of.

Otherwise you'll think all vegans eat meat so all vegans are liars...cuz you knew a dude once who claimed he was vegan but you see him eat meat. Get my point? It's not that vegans are liars and hypocrites. It's that particular person who was pathological.

You have to learn how to judge and discern properly for YOUR benefit and growth.

Now imagine having sex and chemically bonding yo that guy and being so enmeshed with him that by the time he was destroying your whole life.....you have handed him your whole life.

That's why you dont drop trou and start having sex early. Let that relationship have time to build and give that person time to show themselves to you.

After you get good and fucked over .....the worst thing you can do is enter the victim mindset. You want to acknowledge what that person did was wrong and you wont tolerate it. But you also have to examine YOUR role in that relationship and find out why and how you allowed someone like that get close enough to you to do it. That way you can gain more insight into yourself, learn better how to read and discern others and know your own defects so you can go forth and have a better quality of life with better relationships.

The key really is in knowing boundaries. What belongs to you and what belongs to them. What emotional and mental mess is yours and what emotional and mental shit is theirs. You have sex too soon, you'll start taking responsibility for another person's bullshit and baggage.

True human nature doesnt change just because sex becomes ridiculously marketed and cheapened.

 

[Joe]

I just don't agree with you about having sex or not on the first date.

If you did it that's fine.

But then you ought not admonish those who do it too.

 

[Dove]

I just don't agree with you about having sex or not on the first date.

If you did it that's fine.

But then you ought not admonish those who do it too.

Fucking hell Joe. You really dont listen, do you?

You havent a clue what I've said. You are stuck.

I'm 100 percent confident that anyone else reading my posts can clearly see that I wasnt admonishing anyone.

Oh....and I also made it clear that I had sex on the first because i had no intention of getting into a relationship.

If you would like to have more sex? Try listening to people. It helps. Js.

I have been explicitly clear and in depth about why IF YOU WANT A COMMITED RELATIONSHIP......you should wait to have sex to PROTECT YOURSELF FROM ABUSE.

What about that is "admonishing"? Hey joe....dont shove your finger in a light socket. It will hurt badly. There.....still feel judged? Did I just JUDGE you?

Hey......try not to jump off freeway over passes unless you want a painful death. Fuck! How SELF RIGHTEOUS am I?

I cant with some of you people. If I had raised you, youd be doing better.

There is nothing to argue or disagree with. It's a fact that if you start having sex too soon you are more likely to end up in a toxic relationship because you will over look red flags. Do whatever you want. It's your body. Your life. But if you get your heart ripped out and stomped on, you did it to yourself. Js. If you take your time, you'll use better judgement in partners.

 

[The Prowler]

Fucking hell Joe. You really dont listen, do you?

This is yet another example of Liar @Joe demonstrating that he has communication problems.

 

[LotusBud]

Which is a problem with my 54 year old wife because my pelvic gyrations often put her hips out during sweet nookie-nookie...

She says it's not true and I'm an "ultra-dick" but I see how she hobbles around the house afterwards and in a forensic investigation, I've got the grey pubes and spider webs on my bell end to prove it.

(Apparently, I'm on notice after reading this post first to her) lulz.... something about pubes and webs and now me using a new dish rag to clean up garlic...

She so granny feisty....

Va va va vroom!@@!

Spider webs? So you don't serve her very often, then?

 

[LotusBud]

I just don't agree with you about having sex or not on the first date.

If you did it that's fine.

But then you ought not admonish those who do it too.

Yes. I had sex on the first date. It was my damn birthday and I was not gonna get serious with him (lol)

Actually I agree with that practice @Dove y.

Try each other out 1st to see if there's any compatiblity or not.

Premarital sex & living together should be the norm.

I know many of your fellow Christians may not agree tho.

I strongly disagree.

Its best and ideal to spend time getting to know someone before you involve sex. Sex releases bonding chemicals in the brain and it can really muddy up the waters when you are trying to decide if you want to commit yourself to that person.

You dont want to get too emotionally involved too soon. This is how people trauma bond and end up in abusive relationships.

Human being really are not like cars you should "test drive". If you focus on and foster a healthy bond and really get to know eachother without sex.....you will have both a better relationship AND better sex.

I'm not saying you will ruin your relationship by sleeping together too soon. I'm just saying its easier to get hooked into an unhealthy and abusive relationship. You'll over look things you shouldnt when you are having sex.

Someone's watching Crappy Childhood Fairy.

 

[Dove]

I just don't agree with you about having sex or not on the first date.

If you did it that's fine.

But then you ought not admonish those who do it too.

Yes. I had sex on the first date. It was my damn birthday and I was not gonna get serious with him (lol)

Actually I agree with that practice @Dove y.

Try each other out 1st to see if there's any compatiblity or not.

Premarital sex & living together should be the norm.

I know many of your fellow Christians may not agree tho.

I strongly disagree.

Its best and ideal to spend time getting to know someone before you involve sex. Sex releases bonding chemicals in the brain and it can really muddy up the waters when you are trying to decide if you want to commit yourself to that person.

You dont want to get too emotionally involved too soon. This is how people trauma bond and end up in abusive relationships.

Human being really are not like cars you should "test drive". If you focus on and foster a healthy bond and really get to know eachother without sex.....you will have both a better relationship AND better sex.

I'm not saying you will ruin your relationship by sleeping together too soon. I'm just saying its easier to get hooked into an unhealthy and abusive relationship. You'll over look things you shouldnt when you are having sex.

Someone's watching Crappy Childhood Fairy.

What?

 

[Dove]

Fucking hell Joe. You really dont listen, do you?

This is yet another example of Liar @Joe demonstrating that he has communication problems.

You get what I'm saying?

Where did I admonish anyone? I swear. It's like they want to feel judged so theyll twist anything.

Oh well. Glad my daughters understand this and apply it and are in good and healthy relationships.

 

[Dove]

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So do people think adding in this dynamic while you are trying to size someone up for a long term commitment is wise?

When you can just wait and if the person turns out to be a liar or a psycho it wont hurt as bad and you wont be so enmeshed?

I can't believe this isnt common sense but then....the amount of people trapped in abusive relationships and the divorce rate shows a lot.

 

[The Prowler]

You get what I'm saying?

Yup.

Where did I admonish anyone? I swear. It's like they want to feel judged so theyll twist anything.

You should not be surprised.

Go look at a bunch of Liar @Joe's conversations. He rarely addresses any response to him. I have been saying it for months.

Liar @Joe does not take the time to read and understand what other people say. I do not know if he has a mental illness or some sort of learning disability, but if he does, he has had plenty of opportunity to reveal it. I asked him nicely several times. If he revealed that he has been diagnosed with something, then I would take it into consideration when dealing with him.

But he has not addressed the mental illness question, so at this point I will not engage in a conversation with the fucktard.

 

[Breakfall]

You sound like my husband every year between our birthdays when he loves to talk about how he is "banging an older woman"

He is TWO MONTHS younger. That's it. But I'm always a cougar from August 20th to Oct 21 lol.

OMG….enough about your private life you cuck! It’s boring…but at least he ain’t an e-lover!

Yep, I called it.

I wonder if Break is gonna come in here and complain now that I shared something about my.
..evidently....rollercoaster love life?

All my crazy "drama" in my "messed up" life. Buying ford focuses and talking about banging in it...on my ten year first date anniversary with my "new bloke" who we hope can deal my "mood swings" :D

Break if you find it boring or disturbing, just dont read it. I mean you talk about your spouse to the point where we know about her peeing in your mouth and that she was break down over the death of friend.

But I'm the only that cannot decide what parts of my private life to share? Why is that? Does it interfere with some fantasy that has been attached to my screen name?

Others are allowed to not just share what they share from their lives but ALSO discuss what they think my private life is like......but I'm not allowed to share my own?

Excuse me you naive young lady…my wife has never peed in my mouth. These are antics of women in my past…when I was in my 20’s. I’m 50 years old now and look better than most of you.

We don’t want to hear about your fuckups in life and who you’re fucking now. We don’t want to hear of Biggie’s cuckoldry, nor of Poofters sodomy. Drugs kill…

 

[Biggie Smiles]

You sound like my husband every year between our birthdays when he loves to talk about how he is "banging an older woman"

He is TWO MONTHS younger. That's it. But I'm always a cougar from August 20th to Oct 21 lol.

OMG….enough about your private life you cuck! It’s boring…but at least he ain’t an e-lover!

Yep, I called it.

I wonder if Break is gonna come in here and complain now that I shared something about my.
..evidently....rollercoaster love life?

All my crazy "drama" in my "messed up" life. Buying ford focuses and talking about banging in it...on my ten year first date anniversary with my "new bloke" who we hope can deal my "mood swings" :D

Break if you find it boring or disturbing, just dont read it. I mean you talk about your spouse to the point where we know about her peeing in your mouth and that she was break down over the death of friend.

But I'm the only that cannot decide what parts of my private life to share? Why is that? Does it interfere with some fantasy that has been attached to my screen name?

Others are allowed to not just share what they share from their lives but ALSO discuss what they think my private life is like......but I'm not allowed to share my own?

Excuse me you naive young lady…my wife has never peed in my mouth. These are antics of women in my past…when I was in my 20’s. I’m 50 years old now and look better than most of you.

We don’t want to hear about your fuckups in life and who you’re fucking now. We don’t want to hear of Biggie’s cuckoldry, nor of Poofters sodomy. Drugs kill…

Didn't you also admit to knowing what shit tastes like?

 

[Dove]

You sound like my husband every year between our birthdays when he loves to talk about how he is "banging an older woman"

He is TWO MONTHS younger. That's it. But I'm always a cougar from August 20th to Oct 21 lol.

OMG….enough about your private life you cuck! It’s boring…but at least he ain’t an e-lover!

Yep, I called it.

I wonder if Break is gonna come in here and complain now that I shared something about my.
..evidently....rollercoaster love life?

All my crazy "drama" in my "messed up" life. Buying ford focuses and talking about banging in it...on my ten year first date anniversary with my "new bloke" who we hope can deal my "mood swings" :D

Break if you find it boring or disturbing, just dont read it. I mean you talk about your spouse to the point where we know about her peeing in your mouth and that she was break down over the death of friend.

But I'm the only that cannot decide what parts of my private life to share? Why is that? Does it interfere with some fantasy that has been attached to my screen name?

Others are allowed to not just share what they share from their lives but ALSO discuss what they think my private life is like......but I'm not allowed to share my own?

Excuse me you naive young lady…my wife has never peed in my mouth. These are antics of women in my past…when I was in my 20’s. I’m 50 years old now and look better than most of you.

We don’t want to hear about your fuckups in life and who you’re fucking now. We don’t want to hear of Biggie’s cuckoldry, nor of Poofters sodomy. Drugs kill…

1. It's still your personal life, is it not?

2. I dont regard my marriage as a "fuck up", and if you do? That's a YOU problem because I dont give a shit and I can guarantee my husband does not give a shit that some random pee drinking man on the internet who sits and posts about his wife's emotional breakdown rather than comforting her thinks our marriage is a "fuck up".

Need help figuring out how to ignore?

As for Bigs "cuckholdery" or any sort of sodomoy involving Poofer.....that's entirely you dipshits posting about that. So if you dont wanna hear about that, STFU because no one is posting about that. I certainly dont, and I pretty much ignore the 20 times a day YOU post about it.

 

[Breakfall]

You sound like my husband every year between our birthdays when he loves to talk about how he is "banging an older woman"

He is TWO MONTHS younger. That's it. But I'm always a cougar from August 20th to Oct 21 lol.

OMG….enough about your private life you cuck! It’s boring…but at least he ain’t an e-lover!

Yep, I called it.

I wonder if Break is gonna come in here and complain now that I shared something about my.
..evidently....rollercoaster love life?

All my crazy "drama" in my "messed up" life. Buying ford focuses and talking about banging in it...on my ten year first date anniversary with my "new bloke" who we hope can deal my "mood swings" :D

Break if you find it boring or disturbing, just dont read it. I mean you talk about your spouse to the point where we know about her peeing in your mouth and that she was break down over the death of friend.

But I'm the only that cannot decide what parts of my private life to share? Why is that? Does it interfere with some fantasy that has been attached to my screen name?

Others are allowed to not just share what they share from their lives but ALSO discuss what they think my private life is like......but I'm not allowed to share my own?

Excuse me you naive young lady…my wife has never peed in my mouth. These are antics of women in my past…when I was in my 20’s. I’m 50 years old now and look better than most of you.

We don’t want to hear about your fuckups in life and who you’re fucking now. We don’t want to hear of Biggie’s cuckoldry, nor of Poofters sodomy. Drugs kill…

1. It's still your personal life, is it not?

2. I dont regard my marriage as a "fuck up", and if you do? That's a YOU problem because I dont give a shit and I can guarantee my husband does not give a shit that some random pee drinking man on the internet who sits and posts about his wife's emotional breakdown rather than comforting her thinks our marriage is a "fuck up".

Need help figuring out how to ignore?

As for Bigs "cuckholdery" or any sort of sodomoy involving Poofer.....that's entirely you dipshits posting about that. So if you dont wanna hear about that, STFU because no one is posting about that. I certainly dont, and I pretty much ignore the 20 times a day YOU post about it.

Oh ffs…go eat an egg!

 

[Dove]

You sound like my husband every year between our birthdays when he loves to talk about how he is "banging an older woman"

He is TWO MONTHS younger. That's it. But I'm always a cougar from August 20th to Oct 21 lol.

OMG….enough about your private life you cuck! It’s boring…but at least he ain’t an e-lover!

Yep, I called it.

I wonder if Break is gonna come in here and complain now that I shared something about my.
..evidently....rollercoaster love life?

All my crazy "drama" in my "messed up" life. Buying ford focuses and talking about banging in it...on my ten year first date anniversary with my "new bloke" who we hope can deal my "mood swings" :D

Break if you find it boring or disturbing, just dont read it. I mean you talk about your spouse to the point where we know about her peeing in your mouth and that she was break down over the death of friend.

But I'm the only that cannot decide what parts of my private life to share? Why is that? Does it interfere with some fantasy that has been attached to my screen name?

Others are allowed to not just share what they share from their lives but ALSO discuss what they think my private life is like......but I'm not allowed to share my own?

Excuse me you naive young lady…my wife has never peed in my mouth. These are antics of women in my past…when I was in my 20’s. I’m 50 years old now and look better than most of you.

We don’t want to hear about your fuckups in life and who you’re fucking now. We don’t want to hear of Biggie’s cuckoldry, nor of Poofters sodomy. Drugs kill…

1. It's still your personal life, is it not?

2. I dont regard my marriage as a "fuck up", and if you do? That's a YOU problem because I dont give a shit and I can guarantee my husband does not give a shit that some random pee drinking man on the internet who sits and posts about his wife's emotional breakdown rather than comforting her thinks our marriage is a "fuck up".

Need help figuring out how to ignore?

As for Bigs "cuckholdery" or any sort of sodomoy involving Poofer.....that's entirely you dipshits posting about that. So if you dont wanna hear about that, STFU because no one is posting about that. I certainly dont, and I pretty much ignore the 20 times a day YOU post about it.

Oh ffs…go eat an egg!

Go eat some lithium.

 

[Biggie Smiles]

"go eat an egg"

how does one come back from such a scathing insult?

 

[Biggie Smiles]

Hey dove -- you march right back into your kitchen and eat some pie

NOW!

 

[Breakfall]

You sound like my husband every year between our birthdays when he loves to talk about how he is "banging an older woman"

He is TWO MONTHS younger. That's it. But I'm always a cougar from August 20th to Oct 21 lol.

OMG….enough about your private life you cuck! It’s boring…but at least he ain’t an e-lover!

Yep, I called it.

I wonder if Break is gonna come in here and complain now that I shared something about my.
..evidently....rollercoaster love life?

All my crazy "drama" in my "messed up" life. Buying ford focuses and talking about banging in it...on my ten year first date anniversary with my "new bloke" who we hope can deal my "mood swings" :D

Break if you find it boring or disturbing, just dont read it. I mean you talk about your spouse to the point where we know about her peeing in your mouth and that she was break down over the death of friend.

But I'm the only that cannot decide what parts of my private life to share? Why is that? Does it interfere with some fantasy that has been attached to my screen name?

Others are allowed to not just share what they share from their lives but ALSO discuss what they think my private life is like......but I'm not allowed to share my own?

Excuse me you naive young lady…my wife has never peed in my mouth. These are antics of women in my past…when I was in my 20’s. I’m 50 years old now and look better than most of you.

We don’t want to hear about your fuckups in life and who you’re fucking now. We don’t want to hear of Biggie’s cuckoldry, nor of Poofters sodomy. Drugs kill…

1. It's still your personal life, is it not?

2. I dont regard my marriage as a "fuck up", and if you do? That's a YOU problem because I dont give a shit and I can guarantee my husband does not give a shit that some random pee drinking man on the internet who sits and posts about his wife's emotional breakdown rather than comforting her thinks our marriage is a "fuck up".

Need help figuring out how to ignore?

As for Bigs "cuckholdery" or any sort of sodomoy involving Poofer.....that's entirely you dipshits posting about that. So if you dont wanna hear about that, STFU because no one is posting about that. I certainly dont, and I pretty much ignore the 20 times a day YOU post about it.

Oh ffs…go eat an egg!

Go eat some lithium.

Eeeeeeeeeeew. Dildo batteries!

 

[Biggie Smiles]

Dovey?

Did you eat your egg yet?

 

[Dove]

You sound like my husband every year between our birthdays when he loves to talk about how he is "banging an older woman"

He is TWO MONTHS younger. That's it. But I'm always a cougar from August 20th to Oct 21 lol.

OMG….enough about your private life you cuck! It’s boring…but at least he ain’t an e-lover!

Yep, I called it.

I wonder if Break is gonna come in here and complain now that I shared something about my.
..evidently....rollercoaster love life?

All my crazy "drama" in my "messed up" life. Buying ford focuses and talking about banging in it...on my ten year first date anniversary with my "new bloke" who we hope can deal my "mood swings" :D

Break if you find it boring or disturbing, just dont read it. I mean you talk about your spouse to the point where we know about her peeing in your mouth and that she was break down over the death of friend.

But I'm the only that cannot decide what parts of my private life to share? Why is that? Does it interfere with some fantasy that has been attached to my screen name?

Others are allowed to not just share what they share from their lives but ALSO discuss what they think my private life is like......but I'm not allowed to share my own?

Excuse me you naive young lady…my wife has never peed in my mouth. These are antics of women in my past…when I was in my 20’s. I’m 50 years old now and look better than most of you.

We don’t want to hear about your fuckups in life and who you’re fucking now. We don’t want to hear of Biggie’s cuckoldry, nor of Poofters sodomy. Drugs kill…

1. It's still your personal life, is it not?

2. I dont regard my marriage as a "fuck up", and if you do? That's a YOU problem because I dont give a shit and I can guarantee my husband does not give a shit that some random pee drinking man on the internet who sits and posts about his wife's emotional breakdown rather than comforting her thinks our marriage is a "fuck up".

Need help figuring out how to ignore?

As for Bigs "cuckholdery" or any sort of sodomoy involving Poofer.....that's entirely you dipshits posting about that. So if you dont wanna hear about that, STFU because no one is posting about that. I certainly dont, and I pretty much ignore the 20 times a day YOU post about it.

Oh ffs…go eat an egg!

Go eat some lithium.

Eeeeeeeeeeew. Dildo batteries!

Um, no.

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You seem to harbor a lot of bizzare fantasies about who I am behind the handle and they pretty exclusively revolve around sex and delusions you have about my "private life".

You might require some help with that.

You are either projecting or you are attaching a memory of some woman you once knew to my screen name.

Tell me on what fucking planet is the man I've been married to for 8 years my "new bloke" or "the guy I'm fucking now"? How does that work?

Get help. You are confusing me with someone you have unresolved issues with and it's weird and awkward. You keep doing it, I'm gonna start charging by the hour so I get something out of this coercive role play attempt besides confusion.

I'm not gonna play your dysfunctional ex girlfriend or your mother for free, Break. Gas is expensive, ho.

 

[Dove]

Dovey?

Did you eat your egg yet?

Fuck no I didnt. Its 7pm and we already had dinner lol.

I probably will in the morning though. I'll keep you all updated. EVERYONE wants to read about my private life!

 

[Biggie Smiles]

You seem to harbor a lot of bizzare fantasies

Like sniffing his kid's panties and drinking his wife's pee?

yeah, that is pretty damn bizzare

 

[Breakfall]

You sound like my husband every year between our birthdays when he loves to talk about how he is "banging an older woman"

He is TWO MONTHS younger. That's it. But I'm always a cougar from August 20th to Oct 21 lol.

OMG….enough about your private life you cuck! It’s boring…but at least he ain’t an e-lover!

Yep, I called it.

I wonder if Break is gonna come in here and complain now that I shared something about my.
..evidently....rollercoaster love life?

All my crazy "drama" in my "messed up" life. Buying ford focuses and talking about banging in it...on my ten year first date anniversary with my "new bloke" who we hope can deal my "mood swings" :D

Break if you find it boring or disturbing, just dont read it. I mean you talk about your spouse to the point where we know about her peeing in your mouth and that she was break down over the death of friend.

But I'm the only that cannot decide what parts of my private life to share? Why is that? Does it interfere with some fantasy that has been attached to my screen name?

Others are allowed to not just share what they share from their lives but ALSO discuss what they think my private life is like......but I'm not allowed to share my own?

Excuse me you naive young lady…my wife has never peed in my mouth. These are antics of women in my past…when I was in my 20’s. I’m 50 years old now and look better than most of you.

We don’t want to hear about your fuckups in life and who you’re fucking now. We don’t want to hear of Biggie’s cuckoldry, nor of Poofters sodomy. Drugs kill…

1. It's still your personal life, is it not?

2. I dont regard my marriage as a "fuck up", and if you do? That's a YOU problem because I dont give a shit and I can guarantee my husband does not give a shit that some random pee drinking man on the internet who sits and posts about his wife's emotional breakdown rather than comforting her thinks our marriage is a "fuck up".

Need help figuring out how to ignore?

As for Bigs "cuckholdery" or any sort of sodomoy involving Poofer.....that's entirely you dipshits posting about that. So if you dont wanna hear about that, STFU because no one is posting about that. I certainly dont, and I pretty much ignore the 20 times a day YOU post about it.

Oh ffs…go eat an egg!

Go eat some lithium.

Eeeeeeeeeeew. Dildo batteries!

Um, no.

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You seem to harbor a lot of bizzare fantasies about who I am behind the handle and they pretty exclusively revolve around sex and delusions you have about my "private life".

You might require some help with that.

You are either projecting or you are attaching a memory of some woman you once knew to my screen name.

Tell me on what fucking planet is the man I've been married to for 8 years my "new bloke" or "the guy I'm fucking now"? How does that work?

Get help. You are confusing me with someone you unresolved issues with and it's weird and awkward. You keep doing it, I'm gonna start charging by the hour so I get something out of this coercive role play attempt besides confusion.

I'm not gonna play your dysfunctional ex girlfriend or your mother for free, Break. Gas is expensive, ho.

Sorry…I don’t do drugs!

 

[Biggie Smiles]

Dovey?

Did you eat your egg yet?

Fuck no I didnt. Its 7pm and we already had dinner lol.

I probably will in the morning though. I'll keep you all updated.

Okay then

but don't forget tho

it's important

 

[Biggie Smiles]

I'm 50 and I can't say I've ever sniffed a pair of panties

I'd ask break what it's like but that would make me close to being as sick and twisted as he is

 

[Biggie Smiles]

You sound like my husband every year between our birthdays when he loves to talk about how he is "banging an older woman"

He is TWO MONTHS younger. That's it. But I'm always a cougar from August 20th to Oct 21 lol.

OMG….enough about your private life you cuck! It’s boring…but at least he ain’t an e-lover!

Yep, I called it.

I wonder if Break is gonna come in here and complain now that I shared something about my.
..evidently....rollercoaster love life?

All my crazy "drama" in my "messed up" life. Buying ford focuses and talking about banging in it...on my ten year first date anniversary with my "new bloke" who we hope can deal my "mood swings" :D

Break if you find it boring or disturbing, just dont read it. I mean you talk about your spouse to the point where we know about her peeing in your mouth and that she was break down over the death of friend.

But I'm the only that cannot decide what parts of my private life to share? Why is that? Does it interfere with some fantasy that has been attached to my screen name?

Others are allowed to not just share what they share from their lives but ALSO discuss what they think my private life is like......but I'm not allowed to share my own?

Excuse me you naive young lady…my wife has never peed in my mouth. These are antics of women in my past…when I was in my 20’s. I’m 50 years old now and look better than most of you.

We don’t want to hear about your fuckups in life and who you’re fucking now. We don’t want to hear of Biggie’s cuckoldry, nor of Poofters sodomy. Drugs kill…

1. It's still your personal life, is it not?

2. I dont regard my marriage as a "fuck up", and if you do? That's a YOU problem because I dont give a shit and I can guarantee my husband does not give a shit that some random pee drinking man on the internet who sits and posts about his wife's emotional breakdown rather than comforting her thinks our marriage is a "fuck up".

Need help figuring out how to ignore?

As for Bigs "cuckholdery" or any sort of sodomoy involving Poofer.....that's entirely you dipshits posting about that. So if you dont wanna hear about that, STFU because no one is posting about that. I certainly dont, and I pretty much ignore the 20 times a day YOU post about it.

Oh ffs…go eat an egg!

Go eat some lithium.

Eeeeeeeeeeew. Dildo batteries!

GO TOUCH A BED POST!