Wholeheartedly agreed. Any imbalance in a relationship will have its issue(s).
Example:
In this toxic dating climate, I especially appreciate a gentleman who refuses to allow you to pay for anything, opens your car door, pulls your chair out for you at restaurants and places you on the inside of the sidewalk away from the cars when you’re walking down the street. It’s BIG dick energy in my book.
Do I want to deal with the “but… but… I pay for everything” excuse when it comes to household chores? Not so much. Especially if he refers to it as women’s work