This impatience, imo, is one of the reasons the US is crashing and burning. Too many Americans do not have the patience to get an education, to research a little to find the truth, to get to know each other -- differences or no -- to WAIT for something they need or want, etc, etc.I'm going to share a quick tale from Tuesday evening. It's illustrative.
I messed up my ballot, so I had to go get a new ballot (it was a mail ballot). I got in this line inside the building where the Registrar of Voters office is; too long for my taste. I decided to wait. I wanted to make sure I voted. Within a couple of minutes a woman came along. My partner, notoriously impatient, told the lady that she could drop her ballot in the drop box. She says "Oh no, I'm not dropping it off there because I don't trust it. I want to make sure to hand it in myself." He just nodded as in "ok".
I had to go to the bathroom soon after. I had my partner hold the spot for me. I returned to the line within 5 minutes. Five minutes and she'd already given up. Ridonkulous...5 minutes?
I asked my partner about what happened to the woman, did she get called inside? No, she dropped it in the drop box and left. I arched my eyebrow and said "I see, the courage of her convictions disappears in what 5 minutes?" I chuckled.
The point is, there is no damn "revolution" or rebellion coming. That's utter nonsense.
Portugal itself is a massive metaphor for this in my life. When you go into a shop, for instance, if the salesperson/owner is talking to someone, you just have to wait until the conversation is finished before it's your turn. And the conversation could include news about the customer's entire family. I am not kidding you. If you are impatient with stuff like this, you don't belong in a country that values family, friends, and community above fucking material possessions, getting ahead in your career, and getting the fuck out of the shop in under five minutes.
I hope all of the Americans coming here do not ruin this place.