Doveys advice column

[X]

Coconut water ...

 

[Adam Hitler]

I dance in here.

 

[Adam Hitler]

X, isn't your kitchen outside?

 

[Succubus]

Not sure if this is relevant but I was raised in a time when gender roles was very important. Boys played with hot wheels out in the dirt and girls played with their baby dolls and an easy bake oven. Women would stay at home and do all the cooking and cleaning while men went to work and paid all of the bills. Women would actually wear summer dresses instead of dressing like men (nowadays and vice versa). I miss being raised in the 80's and 90's. My aunt and grandmother were very old school and by old school I mean we used a washboard in the bathtub to wash clothes when we didn't have a washer or dryer. We hung our clothes out on a line to dry. Milk was collected from cows and goats and we collected eggs from our chickens. Most of the food we ate was either grown in our garden or raised on our farm. We even made homemade icecream with rock salt and an old ice-cream maker. My aunt used to make cheese from curdling our own milk and my grandmother made rose jelly from roses in our rose garden. Times have changed so much and I appreciate the way I grew up. We weren't poor but we weren't rich. We had everything we needed, though, because we worked together as a family. I miss the good ol' days when we used to drink water from the hose pipe and chase chickens in my aunts yard, lol. I used to help my uncle run barbwire fences and collect manure from the pastures to put in our gardens. I'm such a damn country girl. Can anyone relate to this lifestyle? I wish I could do it all over again....those were the good ol' days.

 

[Joe]

You realize that the same "boss bitch" that comes around here popping that bullshit cashed quite a few alimony checks from the man she didn't need. Took his pension too

hypocrisy at it's finest

I've always said they pop that independence bullshit right up until they are cashing a man's check at the nearest bank and within 30 seconds afterwards they're right back up on that high horse acting like the signature on that check was their own.

.....and you know what Bigly?

Quite often she gets it.
His 401k plan as well.

I knew somebody who did that to her ex. He's a sad & broke(en) man now. Meanwhile she lives with another guy.

 

[Dove]

Not sure if this is relevant but I was raised in a time when gender roles was very important. Boys played with hot wheels out in the dirt and girls played with their baby dolls and an easy bake oven. Women would stay at home and do all the cooking and cleaning while men went to work and paid all of the bills. Women would actually wear summer dresses instead of dressing like men (nowadays and vice versa). I miss being raised in the 80's and 90's. My aunt and grandmother were very old school and by old school I mean we used a washboard in the bathtub to wash clothes when we didn't have a washer or dryer. We hung our clothes out on a line to dry. Milk was collected from cows and goats and we collected eggs from our chickens. Most of the food we ate was either grown in our garden or raised on our farm. We even made homemade icecream with rock salt and an old ice-cream maker. My aunt used to make cheese from curdling our own milk and my grandmother made rose jelly from roses in our rose garden. Times have changed so much and I appreciate the way I grew up. We weren't poor but we weren't rich. We had everything we needed, though, because we worked together as a family. I miss the good ol' days when we used to drink water from the hose pipe and chase chickens in my aunts yard, lol. I used to help my uncle run barbwire fences and collect manure from the pastures to put in our gardens. I'm such a damn country girl. Can anyone relate to this lifestyle? I wish I could do it all over again....those were the good ol' days.

I can. I was raised by my grandma. And her sister lived on a farm and I spent a lot of time there.

My neighborhood was mostly boys though so as a child i was a total tomboy. I even played soccer on an all boy team until i hit puberty and the school staff had to make me stop.

But yes i relate. ♡

 

[Adam Hitler]

Not sure if this is relevant but I was raised in a time when gender roles was very important. Boys played with hot wheels out in the dirt and girls played with their baby dolls and an easy bake oven. Women would stay at home and do all the cooking and cleaning while men went to work and paid all of the bills. Women would actually wear summer dresses instead of dressing like men (nowadays and vice versa). I miss being raised in the 80's and 90's. My aunt and grandmother were very old school and by old school I mean we used a washboard in the bathtub to wash clothes when we didn't have a washer or dryer. We hung our clothes out on a line to dry. Milk was collected from cows and goats and we collected eggs from our chickens. Most of the food we ate was either grown in our garden or raised on our farm. We even made homemade icecream with rock salt and an old ice-cream maker. My aunt used to make cheese from curdling our own milk and my grandmother made rose jelly from roses in our rose garden. Times have changed so much and I appreciate the way I grew up. We weren't poor but we weren't rich. We had everything we needed, though, because we worked together as a family. I miss the good ol' days when we used to drink water from the hose pipe and chase chickens in my aunts yard, lol. I used to help my uncle run barbwire fences and collect manure from the pastures to put in our gardens. I'm such a damn country girl. Can anyone relate to this lifestyle? I wish I could do it all over again....those were the good ol' days.

Wifey material right there.

 

[X]

Not sure if this is relevant but I was raised in a time when gender roles was very important. Boys played with hot wheels out in the dirt and girls played with their baby dolls and an easy bake oven. Women would stay at home and do all the cooking and cleaning while men went to work and paid all of the bills. Women would actually wear summer dresses instead of dressing like men (nowadays and vice versa). I miss being raised in the 80's and 90's. My aunt and grandmother were very old school and by old school I mean we used a washboard in the bathtub to wash clothes when we didn't have a washer or dryer. We hung our clothes out on a line to dry. Milk was collected from cows and goats and we collected eggs from our chickens. Most of the food we ate was either grown in our garden or raised on our farm. We even made homemade icecream with rock salt and an old ice-cream maker. My aunt used to make cheese from curdling our own milk and my grandmother made rose jelly from roses in our rose garden. Times have changed so much and I appreciate the way I grew up. We weren't poor but we weren't rich. We had everything we needed, though, because we worked together as a family. I miss the good ol' days when we used to drink water from the hose pipe and chase chickens in my aunts yard, lol. I used to help my uncle run barbwire fences and collect manure from the pastures to put in our gardens. I'm such a damn country girl. Can anyone relate to this lifestyle? I wish I could do it all over again....those were the good ol' days.

I could live like that. throw in a pet Raccoon I'm sold lol
things are so diff now, the degradation of society .. used to be lots of room to move, now the faggots and know it alls, greedy heartless fucks, gun retards shit the list goes on an on ... that lot seem to be taking up more and more room everyday ...
80's ??? my club years, there was no greater time to be alive

 

[Dove]

It's a problem



Lol

 

[Adam Hitler]

LOL is that you? I guess having the tunes blasting is good motivation for doing household chores.

 

[Dove]

LOL is that you? I guess having the tunes blasting is good motivation for doing household chores.

No but it kinda looks like me doesnt it? LOL

My daughter found this video and was like OMG its MOM lol

 

[Adam Hitler]

Yeah it does haha.

 

[Dove]

Yeah it does haha.

I would never use those cleaners though lol.

 

[X]

I would never use those cleaners though lol.

no, of course not ....

 

[Adam Hitler]

I would never use those cleaners though lol.

I legit thought it was you, I was gonna tell you off for listening to shitty nigga beats LOL.

 

[Seamajor]

X, isn't your kitchen outside?

I love outdoor kitchens. I cook outside 4 nights a week.

 

[X]

I legit thought it was you, I was gonna tell you off for listening to shitty nigga beats LOL.

That behaviour is borne litterelly of the jewish naught LOL

she's missing so much bacteria to boot

 

[X]

I love outdoor kitchens. I cook outside 4 nights a week.

fuck, cooking outside is what MEN do ,,, we must exscuse the Scouser, ti's a forien subjet

 

[Joe]

Since this appears to be an ‘Ask Dove’ thread I was gonna ask @Dove if I should pursue this young woman I met at the dentist’s office today.

She couldn’t have been more than 30. Maybe she was as young as 25. She works there. Anyway she couldn’t stop talking to me about herself. She told her interests. And how she knows how to cook. Evidently she is single cuz she didn’t have an engagement or wedding ring on her finger. But she seemed to like me.

She is not from this country. Told me she is from a republic in the former Ussr . Quite pretty with long black hair. She seemed to wanna get to know me.

So maybe she’s lonely or lookin for a man or I’m that kinda guy who has that effect on young women. I’m still somewhat of a handsome brute.

Thing is she must be half or less than half my age. I dunno maybe she’s getting desperate & her biological clock is ticking. Truth is those kind make me a bit nervous cuz I think they wanna bag a guy so they can get pregnant.

I still like the bachelor life. Still she seems enticing to pursue. It’s tempting tho.

What do you think? Should I pursue this young woman? But Maybe she’d get turned off if she found out how to old I really am. I’ve been told I look 20 years younger than my actual age. So it surprises a lotta ‘‘em later on. I’m the type who doesn’t age fast eh.

 

[The Prowler]

@Joe's life is like the guy in this song....only instead of 38 it is 58...and instead of being locked in prison it is being locked in mental illness.

 

[Joe]

Actually she was a bit kooky @The Prowler.

Kinda pretty, kinda sweet, but kooky, eh?

Rather naive.

When I was getting my teeth fixed, she started socializing with me in front of the dentist.

Hadn't experienced anythin' like that b'fore.

She started tellin' me about herself like I was her best friend.

Actually, I sensed that she was lonely, far away from her original home & homesick.

But...maybe she jes' wanted somebody ta talk to.

Women need to talk a lot to relieve stress.

In general, they like to talk a lot..more than men imho

 

[Joe]

Not sure if this is relevant but I was raised in a time when gender roles was very important. Boys played with hot wheels out in the dirt and girls played with their baby dolls and an easy bake oven. Women would stay at home and do all the cooking and cleaning while men went to work and paid all of the bills. Women would actually wear summer dresses instead of dressing like men (nowadays and vice versa). I miss being raised in the 80's and 90's. My aunt and grandmother were very old school and by old school I mean we used a washboard in the bathtub to wash clothes when we didn't have a washer or dryer. We hung our clothes out on a line to dry. Milk was collected from cows and goats and we collected eggs from our chickens. Most of the food we ate was either grown in our garden or raised on our farm. We even made homemade icecream with rock salt and an old ice-cream maker. My aunt used to make cheese from curdling our own milk and my grandmother made rose jelly from roses in our rose garden. Times have changed so much and I appreciate the way I grew up. We weren't poor but we weren't rich. We had everything we needed, though, because we worked together as a family. I miss the good ol' days when we used to drink water from the hose pipe and chase chickens in my aunts yard, lol. I used to help my uncle run barbwire fences and collect manure from the pastures to put in our gardens. I'm such a damn country girl. Can anyone relate to this lifestyle? I wish I could do it all over again....those were the good ol' days.

In my city they put tampon dispensers inside the Men's washrooms.
And Outside the Washroom doors they put up signs that say, "Trans People Welcome"
Vancouver has become a Woke City run by kooks
It's the San Francisco of the North

 

[The Prowler]

When I was getting my teeth fixed, she started socializing with me in front of the dentist.

The only way this happened is if the dentist knows you are a whack job and they were having a good laugh at your expense @Joe.

 

[Dove]

Since this appears to be an ‘Ask Dove’ thread I was gonna ask @Dove if I should pursue this young woman I met at the dentist’s office today.

She couldn’t have been more than 30. Maybe she was as young as 25. She works there. Anyway she couldn’t stop talking to me about herself. She told her interests. And how she knows how to cook. Evidently she is single cuz she didn’t have an engagement or wedding ring on her finger. But she seemed to like me.

She is not from this country. Told me she is from a republic in the former Ussr . Quite pretty with long black hair. She seemed to wanna get to know me.

So maybe she’s lonely or lookin for a man or I’m that kinda guy who has that effect on young women. I’m still somewhat of a handsome brute.

Thing is she must be half or less than half my age. I dunno maybe she’s getting desperate & her biological clock is ticking. Truth is those kind make me a bit nervous cuz I think they wanna bag a guy so they can get pregnant.

I still like the bachelor life. Still she seems enticing to pursue. It’s tempting tho.

What do you think? Should I pursue this young woman? But Maybe she’d get turned off if she found out how to old I really am. I’ve been told I look 20 years younger than my actual age. So it surprises a lotta ‘‘em later on. I’m the type who doesn’t age fast eh.

Sure.

Keep in mind though that it's her job to be friendly and chat up patients so they arent nervous.

 

[Blazor]

Check this story out @Dove !!!!

"I bought rocks yesterday. A 10 or 11 year-old girl stood in front of her apartment with a sign, “Rocks for sale.” My first thought was, “if she’s selling rocks, she must not have much else to sell”.

I got out of my car and went to ask about her rocks. She said she’d been there for 2 hours, but no one had even stopped. And that was after she had already gone door to door trying to sell the rocks. Her sign said that each rock was $5, so I grabbed a $20 bill and handed it to her. She sheepishly responded that she didn’t have change for $20. I told her change was not needed as I was going to buy 4 of her beautiful rocks.

Immediately she started to cry. As tears streamed down her face she told me that her family had a cat, but they didn’t have enough money to take care of it. Her mom said the only way they could keep it was if she earned the money for the cat food. She couldn’t believe I was going to buy 4 rocks, but that with the money she would be able to keep her favorite pet. She thanked me profusely, but the tears had already rewarded me well. As I left, she packed up her table and treasures and went inside. All day I thought about the difference $20 made in her life. I think I’ll keep those rocks forever.

When I had my brain tumor, even a little text message could give me hope to keep fighting. No act of kindness is “little” when you are in need. I wish I could buy rocks everyday."

 

[Dove]

Check this story out @Dove !!!!

"I bought rocks yesterday. A 10 or 11 year-old girl stood in front of her apartment with a sign, “Rocks for sale.” My first thought was, “if she’s selling rocks, she must not have much else to sell”.

I got out of my car and went to ask about her rocks. She said she’d been there for 2 hours, but no one had even stopped. And that was after she had already gone door to door trying to sell the rocks. Her sign said that each rock was $5, so I grabbed a $20 bill and handed it to her. She sheepishly responded that she didn’t have change for $20. I told her change was not needed as I was going to buy 4 of her beautiful rocks.

Immediately she started to cry. As tears streamed down her face she told me that her family had a cat, but they didn’t have enough money to take care of it. Her mom said the only way they could keep it was if she earned the money for the cat food. She couldn’t believe I was going to buy 4 rocks, but that with the money she would be able to keep her favorite pet. She thanked me profusely, but the tears had already rewarded me well. As I left, she packed up her table and treasures and went inside. All day I thought about the difference $20 made in her life. I think I’ll keep those rocks forever.

When I had my brain tumor, even a little text message could give me hope to keep fighting. No act of kindness is “little” when you are in need. I wish I could buy rocks everyday."

When I was a kid, I sold rabbit shit to several people in the neighborhood. Made like...120 some bucks....and tried to finance a new car for my grandma LOL.

And yes you read that right. Rabbit shit. I had a pet rabbit named Digger and I saw something on TV about manure and got the idea. So I went and gathered rabbit shit, mashed it up in baggies and sold it for like 2 bucks a baggy. And yeah I made over 100 bucks LOL.

I also used to walk all my neighbors dogs for a dollar.

We were poor and I wanted to do stuff like get slurpees at 7/11 and go to open swim at the public school with my friends and I didnt want to ask grandma lol.

 

[Oerdin]

Thats probably why there was this mass resignation during the pandemic eh @Dove?

People were so fed up with being stepped on by unscrupulius emplyers. So it appeared for a while that the whole society had rebelled against the old norms.



I think many people are still fed up with their employers & not just women eh.

Almost all of the lazy bastards regretted it to because they couldn't find another job with the same pay.

"The 'Great Resignation' is now the 'Great Regret': 80% of job hoppers wish they hadn't quit their old roles, with Gen Z the most regretful. It's been harder than expected for people who quit during the 'Great Resignation' to find a new role -and they miss their old jobs even when they get one.Feb 9, 2023"

 

[Dove]

Perfect.

Women who think they are above this, are all pretty miserable and angry and trying hard to convince themselves and eachother they are happy "whole" people.

We arent here to live just for ourselves.

And no woman who stays in the home being the home is a slave or some spineless and powerless servant. The man serves as well and leading is service.

My grandma used to tell me....the man is the head, but the woman is the neck.

You know how much actual power women have? Turning us into men with vaginas and convincing us we need to slave at a job and that family is a burden or weakness is exactly the thinking that strips us of our actual power.

Notice the lib fem platforms of sexual liberation, abortion, and now trans cult ideology all benefit MEN. Women going to work benefits men. And the government....more people to tax and more people to consume.

Not a single motherfucker lays on their death bed wishing they had worked more.

BTW I'm not against women working. I'm against women being forced or coerced to work and having our roles in family shat on and belittling women for not wanting careers.

 

[Omnipotent]

I have lemon trees, an olive tree.... many grapevines, chickens and I live on 764 square metre block. You don't really need as much space as you think you do.

 

[Omnipotent]

Perfect.

Women who think they are above this, are all pretty miserable and angry and trying hard to convince themselves and eachother they are happy "whole" people.

We arent here to live just for ourselves.

And no woman who stays in the home being the home is a slave or some spineless and powerless servant. The man serves as well and leading is service.

My grandma used to tell me....the man is the head, but the woman is the neck.

You know how much actual power women have? Turning us into men with vaginas and convincing us we need to slave at a job and that family is a burden or weakness is exactly the thinking that strips us of our actual power.

Notice the lib fem platforms of sexual liberation, abortion, and now trans cult ideology all benefit MEN. Women going to work benefits men. And the government....more people to tax and more people to consume.

Not a single motherfucker lays on their death bed wishing they had worked more.

BTW I'm not against women working. I'm against women being forced or coerced to work and having our roles in family shat on and belittling women for not wanting careers.

You are talking from your 40 yr old self.... well guess what 40 yr old self, one day you will 60 + and now is the time to start thinking about then. Ask youself, do I want a comfortable old age or do I want abject poverty?

You should get a part time job.... even 1 day a week and invest that money. Just by me investing an extra $10 week for 20 years.... made me comfortable today. Plan ahead.