A year ago... Shampain basically begged me to be a mod here. We didnt need any and I wasnt interested. He continued with wanting the power over other members, that was a flag to moi... realgrimm and I were doing fine on our own, but we brought Shampain in for the extra eyes. I told him one thing...''do not mod abuse members. Fight them without mod cp. dont change/edit words, dont chest beat''.
Things were fine up until a few weeks ago. He started moving threads around a bit more than needed aka overmodding. Best to let convos. go, but I could tell he was getting anxious and wanted more. Then Countess lit a fire under his ass... he brokedown the fuck down.
Im busy doing other things and its just another fight imo. I didnt care and look past that stuff.
Sunday morning... I woke up to blatant mod abuse... 4 different posts of hers were edited, complete words changed... a thread title was changed and then I was given a public ultimatum by him in the Shoutbox.
Now Im involved? You notice I stay outta all these squabbles? So dudes telling me 3 times, in bold.. publicly, not in a PM, which he and I have been talking in almost daily since he became mod, no he went public.. he wanted my drama. "Her or Me".. lol fuuuuuuck that... THAT'S where he lost me.
I eventually hit him up in a PM, he tells me he was 'blatant' about the cpanel abuse becasue hes upset at me for not ''sticking up for him with Countess rifff''... I'm like, ''why should I be, etc''.... so Im on him for mod abuse and making me an ultimatum like that... Then the personal insults came at me, blahhhhh. Hes unhinged and he'll do this again the next time someone eats his lunch here. Him being a str8t dickhead and then the integrity of the site, I felt it was easy decision to remove this guy.
He said he was now ''embarresed I demodded him'', didnt take his side against Countess so he said he was done posting here.
So now, after you tell someone on the internet they cant do something... he's 'flipped' on me... I am now the problem.
Within minutes, through the grapevine, he told someone he still had capablity to 'delete profiles and threads' here (soft delete sucker, never trusted u), he wants to share my trollin secrets... I caught him lying about a recent donation amount to BF, I hate liars... he then said to me hes gonna build his own BF ripoff site.. I'm flattered. I was blushing but he couldnt see. Good luck w that! He told me that ''he's responsible for bringing majority of members here'' and he can do as he pleases... Alllllll these threats led up to a ban. I liked the little fella, but too much direct, undeserved disrespect towards me. Im patient with all this shit anymore, but multiple ultimatums and threats... GTFO.
Today, 3 days later, I care less. I still have no time for his anger, but unbanned him because some of you are in tears.
He's no martyr.
, but chicks should never moderate a forum unless of course it’s orientated around chick stuff...like knitting, cooking and ironing of the clothes, dildos etc.
