Poofer was OK towards me, but I realize others had issues with him or he them...
You gotta keep a good and healthy distance from that one. As long as you are just posting.....you're good.
You get involved on the level I did? THATS where you get the trouble.
I've chatted with him and it was all good. But I realise you two or three have problems with each other...
Not my business and not my place to interfere one way or another...
I'm just me.
Chatting is chatting. Keep a good and healthy distance. And dont tell him anything he can weaponize later if you accidently flip his crazy switch.
You dont want to get close enough to get past the mask. And since this is just a forum and you are both men....that's not even likely to ever happen.
I'm not saying dont like the guy or chat with the guy. I will tell anyone I give a fuck about to be cautious with that one. People like that are professional schemers. They pull shit normal people would never even think about.
He is entertaining though.
But the action.... the deception.... that would piss me the fuck off.... and I'd have to resurrect a former self....lulz....
That's the thing I'm talking about. Accidently flip the crazy switch.
You don't even know you "did" anything wrong.
My crazy switch is well and truly buried under a mountain of earth....but.... just but.... if somebody fucks around with me repeatedly, I'm an Olympic shovel star.... :)
I'm the same.
I'm just saying....his has a hair trigger lol.
YOU were the actually the reason he used to start flipping on me. I just decided to get off the Poofercoaster.
Why me? I'm harmless enough and on the other side of the planet with a wife and kids.
It wasnt you really. He just used you as a reason to attack me.
You posted something that made him (knowingly) pretend that he thought I "shared his shit" with you.
So I started getting messages and my phone was getting blown up and he was screaming and ranting about how I "shared his shit" with you and why its like "rape".
He knew damn well he was making it up to get some attention fix from me he wanted. Squish was sick that night. So I told him I would be unavailable to talk/chat.
So he decided to find some drama that he thought would excuse him violating a boundary and getting me to inter act with him anyway.
See I was SUPPOSED to be like "omg I didnt do anything! You gotta believe me! Please I'll prove it!" And then he would "settle down" and listen to me and be like "omg I'm sorry. So what are you up to?"
It was that kinda game. I recognized it immediately. Told him I shared nothing with anyone and if he contacted me further I'd involve police and that was that. Then the drama hit the board.