The Prowler
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Immediate Contradiction Alert!!!
I really doubt her parents could have had much influence over this. If she had a solid and good relationship with her parents... he would have been attacking it and isolating her like abusers do.
Everyone should teach thier kids about people like this so when they see the warning signs they dip. Like the over romantic love bombing and intense romantic bullshit. The very minute that shit starts is when you nope outta there.
I am only here to help.
Yeah....that was a contradiction. I worded that poorly for sure lol.
What I was trying to express was that if you teach them early on how to identify abusive behavior, and how to have and respect healthy boundaries....that will have the most influence on them. But if they are already caught up in this kind of relationship, its really difficult to get through to them.
Once they fall for that love bombing and get hooked, it's damn near impossible to reason with them. They have to decide for themselves. Like a drug addiction.
Sorry I wasnt clear on that lol.
Yeah, you gotta teach them when they are young. Before they are dating at all. Build their self esteem. And let them know about the motherfuckers who are out in the real world who will try to convince them that they are a nice person. Let them know what are some red flags. Let them know that they can always confide in you and you will always have their best interest at heart.
