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We don’t contact people’s relatives tho:Confused:
I have... and let me just tell you that the situation is already insane before it gets to that point.
I’ve known Dove for a longtime. I also remember every time she reached out to me when this got crazy. I also remember Big coming to me to tell me that he was about to go postal on Poofer because he kept going after her and she wasn’t engaging him @ SG when the romance went south.
You were in a difficult position since you were friends with Poofer and Dove. I urge you to look at the situation from the perspective of a single woman with small children when you factor in forum code.
But they contacted your spouse first, right? You had a right to do what you needed to do.
I know wayyyy too much about this situation. I told her from the get go NOT to contact his ex. No, I don’t feel sorry for her. She lied about him getting her fired and some other shit that I’m not going to repeat. I’ve repeatedly got on Poofer to stfu but wtf is he supposed to do when she’s accusing him of the most insane shit to everyone?
My former husband was contacted by my target before I ever contacted his wife. He was angry because I ended things when I found out he was married when I had been honest that I was unhappily married with him before our romance started.
Her job wouldn’t put her on the schedule
since he was contacting the corporate office, so he impacted her ability to work.
For some perspective here, I didn’t contact the police on Farmer because he had a prior stalking charge against him from another online member and had just landed a federal job. I wanted to punish him, not ruin him.
That’s honestly admirable of you. Anyone else would have ruined him.
as for the job, that’s not what she told me. See, there are a lot of lies being told.
Regardless of the potential lies, there is a bigger issue here and that is Poofer set out to dox her when she ended things. That is what we call a superseding intervening cause in law. It was Poofer’s initial action of bringing their split to the board and then demanding the return of the property that started the cataclysmic events that resulted.
This should not have to be explained.
Especailly not have to be explained for over a year. There is something wrong when this needs explaining....honestly Murd dont even bother.