Wouldn't dream of it.
Could you share your thoughts on the gender bender questions with me?
I don't understand how a male to female transwoman that has intimate relations with males is not in a gay relationship, especially if they aren't surgically altered.
I also don't understand transwomen where they do surgically transition aren't lesbians when they have same sex relationships.
If it is all supposed to be about how the individuals feel about their gender, how is the rest of the world supposed to interact with these individuals? How do we not offend or misunderstand.
To be completely honest, it feels like a mind fuck sometimes.
Lil, in the same way that you can't speak for men, I can't speak for transwomen (nor, obviously, for women... nor, come to think of it, for other men).
I can only speak for myself. And I'm not the droid you're looking for.