I don't understand how a male to female transwoman that has intimate relations with males is not in a gay relationship, especially if they aren't surgically altered.
You need to understand the definintion of
"gay". Gay is feeling sexual attraction to members of the same gender as oneself. So a transwoman, being the gender "
woman", is not gay if she has intimate relations with a
man.
You used the word "
male", which is not the proper term. If a transwoman has sex with another transwoman or a woman, then she is gay. If a transwoman has sex with a transman or a man, then she is not gay.
Whether or not a person is surgically altered does not affect any of this. How dare you accuse anyone of being less of a transwoman just because she has not been surgically altered.
In fact, many people have been surgically altered and have come to realize that they are the gender they were born. Just because a dude has his dick and balls cut off and has been a transwoman for a few years, does not make him any less of a man; if he now says he is a man, then he is a man. A ball-less man. You ignorant hateful transphobe.
I also don't understand transwomen where they do surgically transition aren't lesbians when they have same sex relationships.
You need to understand the definintion of
"lesbian". A lesbian is a female feeling sexual attraction to other females. So a transwoman, who is male, can never be a lesbian.
If it is all supposed to be about how the individuals feel about their gender, how is the rest of the world supposed to interact with these individuals? How do we not offend or misunderstand.
You will interact how they tell you to interact and you will always get it wrong. You will always offend. You will always misunderstand.
You are a hateful ignorant transphobe.
To be completely honest, it feels like a mind fuck sometimes.
Only sometimes?
