You know people used to tell me to watch my back with her? That she was using me to get "close" to Big?
This is a woman who was in a bad sexless marriage and was coming on forums to get the attention she wasnt getting from home.
She was getting it, too. She was sexting and having flings with most of the males.
I didnt come to forums for that but Big and I just clicked and bonded and he was my ONE person. And it's no secret that relationship was SO important to me.
And Big has always been more a gentleman and classy and he is NOT the kind of man you approach like a hyper sexual way. He isnt interested in reading someone describe how they can move their pussy on a dick. She started sending him these late night vulgar PMs. He would ignore it. And she took this as a challange. All the while he was already involved with me. So no shit he told me about this!
And I think its BECAUSE he blew her off and wasnt interested that she got fixated on him. She turned him into some ideal. And she changed her strategy i guess and decided to become "frenemies" with me and form some friendship with him that she completely misinterpreted.
It's like she resents the fact ONE guy wasnt interested in giving her sexual ot romantic attention, preferred another woman over her and shes just all rotten now. She doesnt view other people as human or individuals separate from her.
Even Fleas designer ass is an attack on her big old ego.
I cant believe I gaslit myself to believe she wasnt trying to compete when she has been. I like to see the good in people, sue me lol.