I am completely lost...
And Dovey.... you are your own worst enemy.
It would be good if you stopped justifying what happened all those years ago. You already stated your position you dont need to keep saying it and feeding your detractors .... fuck 'em.
They don't believe you. Apparently 66% of people don't believe other people so you are pushing shit up hill.
Personally I think you both did wrong at the time but you have to move forward because you aren't likely to make the same mistakes again are you?
Lily is a very judgemental person and Flynn.... well, Flynn is Flynn...nuff said.