I went to a spa today. I covered my genitals with a floral shower cap.
Nobody could tell if I was a man or a woman.
We talked about fingernail fashion and diesel engine repair.
That's awesome.
The problem is you could have waved your dick around right in front of little girls and no one would have done anything.
I'm sure you've never raped anyone either......but what's the stats on male violence against women? When you consider that, you can surely see why women losing their privacy and protection in sex segregated places is upsetting, right?
Just because you dont do it, doesnt mean it's not an issue you know?
Jeebus, Dovey. Chill.
I've been out and about in both male and female guises (the latter occasion now dating back over fifteen years ago) and I would never in a million years dream of imposing my eccentric self on any woman's "sex-segregated space." Hell, even when people ask me if I have a preferred pronoun, I always invite them to use the one
they're most comfortable with, as it matters not one whit to me.
The above scenario was just me, pulling your leg.
I do consider myself a member of the trans "community" (such as it is), but--and you might find this hard to believe--I'm not a very politicized soul, and I'm definitely no activist. I've had my "community organizer" moments where I worked hard at breaking down the walls between various community groups and agencies all vying for the same funding, but that was strictly in service to isolated and vulnerable seniors.
I'm a practical Taoist, of sorts. I tend to go with the flow. I'm not out to change the world. When I find the flow disagreeable, I pick up my pink mankini and head on over to the river yonder hill.
Blurt honestly the reason why you dont find this alarming and unsettling is because you are a man.
You havent experienced the world as a woman to know how unsafe men can make us feel.
You dont have to worry about the same things women have to worry about here.
You havent been leared at, harrassed, followed by someone who could easily over power you as a norm. Sex segregated places are important to women so we can get the fuck away from men while we are being vulnerable.
Other men get this, 100 percent. I can sit here and point these things out AND point out Male violence against women....and most of the men here will understand what I'm talking about while understanding I'm not talking about THEM. Some of them are fathers of little girls and understand how important this is. They have wives and sisters and mothers they want safe from predatory men in skirts playing at "trans" to access victims.
When women dont even have domestic violence shelters that are safe from predatory men anymore......I mean this is a real problem.
I dont find it hard to believe that someone in the trans community isnt an activist. Most of the time the people pushing this shit are not even trans. Or they consider themselves trans but do not have dysphoria, they have more of a fetish.
Would you intentionally put women in unsafe situations to validate your identity? You dont really strike me as someone who do that.
As with everything I say.....if it doesnt apply, then it doesn't apply. I'm addressing the loudest "activists" types, and the ones fighting for this legislation that basically destroys every sex based thing for women.