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Anyone need said posts removed from THEIR thread report the thread and I'll take a look at it
That's all I tried doing.
The OP is always responsible in the direction they want their thread to be steered though, I'm not trying to push any modding style.. but if the thread turns to shit becuz OP, it just gets tossed in the pit..
I see. More reports were received than I acted on.
BF made it clear to me that we didn't want a boring, sterile board, and only clean up the really bad shit that stop conversation and take threads of their rails. I agreed with him on that.
It seemed like people can't be held accountable for their behavior.
BF made the decision to mod you and Flynn. Everyone needs to STFU and respect his decisions imho.
They respect no one and I think BF figured that out on his own.
Thank Gawd for that.
They play the team sport with the zero sportsmanship game and they don’t give a fuck about anything other than furthering their own dominance of this forum…
They have always been this way and nothing will ever change until there is a board owner with a backbone strong enough to recognize their manipulations and deal with them accordingly.
The problem is that forum traffic will be affected. I vote for quality over quantity.
I think there's an argument to be made that they drive other posters off the forum or turn them off to even joining.
Probably because you project a lot and your whole goal was to run off people you dont like.
So you think other people are like that. Its narcissism.
Instead of feeling out others and connecting with how they think and what their motives are (empathy) you just kinda plasters yours onto others.
Maybe try making genuine connections and expand your perspectives. Authenticity is wonderful.
Oh yeah, all these forums I've ever been on are about empathy. You're an idiot.
They really are. You should always know your group. Empathy is a natural thing for humans.
And you are a narcissist, so you think "empathy" is just "feeling bad" for people. You dont realize it's much more than that. It's the ability to connect with others and kinda know what the tone is. I've noticed you are not good at that. And you have a controling personality.
You dont read people. You read yourself into people.
Oh honey, I read people real well. It's why my actual life story isn't out on the forums.
You DONT. Believe me. You really dont. I know you THINK you do.
And that's where that lack of self awareness comes in.
You are reading YOURSELF into others. You are not reading others at all. This is why you ALWAYS have this sort of conflict.
I have conflict because I won't take shit from people with issues. People with drug problems alone...fucking shit, I'm almost stunned. Then there are the actual drinkers. Then the racists that can't understand that most of the planet is NOT white and think they're being discriminated because of it.
I could go on and on. But why bother, you are incapable of reasoning things out and learning. You are a victim because you have been victimized. Everyone that doesn't cater to you is victimizing you again, aren't we?
You have conflict because you are controlling, overbearing, entitled, crude, a know it all, and fake.
You read yourself into people. You wont "take shit" and you really think too much of yourself and expect others to take yours. And no one is going to.
You arent going to hear this though....and you need to.
The common denominator in all you many conflicts just like this one? YOU.
You see your troubles in everyone you don't like.
No, Oak. No I do not.
I know who I am and why I think the way I do. I like myself. I understand boundaries. It was hard work and I did it.
Again......you are reading yourself into others.
Get a fucking grip.... you are so full of yourself it's actually amazing.
If you understood boundaries of even the most basic decency you wouldn't be the public spectacle you are with dick pics, talking about who you'd let fuck you, who'd you suck...
You have no idea what a boundary would look like even if it came with $3.5K