So whats Oaks excuse for not getting married?

[Dove]

Right? My divorce was horrendous. I don't ever want to go through that again. Especially if I had to initiate it again.

So then your current relationship isnt healthy and loving?

 

[Lily]

"Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind."
~Shakspeare

If you love someone, you love them. That's all that matters.

I am now and have been loved by several other men in my life.

 

[Blazor]

Says the tutu wearing goofball.

Ok Gomer

 

[Alticus]

In Mexico?

Very cute. lol

My point is that these days things in the world are very uncertain and intimidating. It takes a toll on us with respect to relationships, trust and social safety.

 

[Dove]

"Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind."
~Shakspeare

If you love someone, you love them. That's all that matters.

I dont buy this shit men pull where they reject marriage while still trying to sound commited.

I know these tricks.

If you love someone, you love them and you prove that with action and making sure your position in their life is locked in.

I can sit in my feels all day long and FEEL love for someone but if I'm actively loving them with action....it doesnt mean anything.

 

[Lily]

There are still very many healthy marriages out there. My grandparents were married 60+ years, but that was a long time ago.

I hope that's true. I saw many marriages where people seemed to be putting up with one another because divorce didn't seem like a viable option for them.

Life is too short to tolerate another person. There should be genuine love and affection between two souls.

 

[Frood]

Nobody wants to marry tubbies.

 

[Lily]

Because most DO but we are told we arent supposed to want that and have been led to believe that a desire for marriage is some patriarchal scam and it makes us look weak and needy.

Women dont want to be stand in mothers to grown men or single parents.

BUT you are already in a healthy and loving relationship so WHY wouldnt you marry?

Most is not "all". I'm pro-choice. If a woman wants to marry, I would never dissuade her. I would only support her.

But, I don't. I don't think it's a big deal.

 

[Blazor]

When he uses it, it means Still Thankful For U...

(Because you have a cock)

I hate it when my penis brings all the boys to the yard.

You would think my Southern flag would be an indicator Im straight lol. But nooooooooo, they done heard the rumors of my Man Meat lulz.

 

[Frood]

Men won't marry Fat Oak because she's a real big deal that squeals.

 

[Alticus]

I dont buy this shit men pull where they reject marriage while still trying to sound commited.

I know these tricks.

If you love someone, you love them and you prove that with action and making sure your position in their life is locked in.

I can sit in my feels all day long and FEEL love for someone but if I'm actively loving them with action....it doesnt mean anything.

When a man says he's committed but won't get married it usually means that he's looking to have more than one lady.

 

[Admin.]

Ok Gomer

OK loser.

 

[Dove]

No, you're talking about it.

Yes and it's my thread and the topic. .


So come on, now. Why aren't you married?

 

[Alticus]

Nobody wants to marry tubbies.

How do you know?

 

[Dove]

When a man says he's committed but won't get married it usually means that he's looking to have more than one lady.

Exactly.

Or he wants to keep his options open.

I mean to me saying you are committed while avoiding committing is just nonsense lol

 

[Lily]

Yes and it's my thread and the topic. .


So come on, now. Why aren't you married?

No

 

[Blazor]

Very cute. lol

My point is that these days things in the world are very uncertain and intimidating. It takes a toll on us with respect to relationships, trust and social safety.

Are you Male or Female Alticus..... lets start with simple and work our way up lol.

 

[Lily]

How do you know?

He doesn't know anything. They are "trolling", they're so fantastic at it.

 

[Frood]

How do you know?

Because they're revolting to look at and smell.

 

[Lily]

OK loser.

Talk about a lost cause...

 

[Dove]

No

Yes. See the title and OP

So what is the problem here that is stopping you from getting married to this dude?

Is he a dick?

 

[Alticus]

He doesn't know anything. They are "trolling", they're so fantastic at it.

I'm having a hard time taking what someone who uses a squirrel with hanging testicles as an avatar says seriously. lol

 

[Lily]

When a man says he's committed but won't get married it usually means that he's looking to have more than one lady.

But what if a man can keep his word and does not step out on the woman? Is he not committed?

 

[Blazor]

When a man says he's committed but won't get married it usually means that he's looking to have more than one lady.

Something a person without a penis would say lol.

So....... next, do you live on the West coast lol?

 

[Admin.]

I hope that's true. I saw many marriages where people seemed to be putting up with one another because divorce didn't seem like a viable option for them.

Life is too short to tolerate another person. There should be genuine love and affection between two souls.

One of my old Bosses that I really liked has two beautiful Daughters, and once in a while his wife would drop by work usually with the Daughter still at home...and Kelly and his Daughter would chat and goof with each other, and at the time I didn't think much of it, but his convo with the wife always seemed friendly but 'perfunctory'....a couple years later when the younger girl went off to College he and the wife split up.

 

[Frood]

Talk about a lost cause...

Like Jenny Craig is for you, Snuffleufugus?

 

[Alticus]

Because they're revolting to look at and smell.

You know this from experience?

 

[Lily]

I'm having a hard time taking what someone who uses a squirrel with hanging testicles as an avatar says seriously. lol

It's meltdown, you shouldn't take anyone seriously.

 

[Admin.]

Are you Male or Female Alticus..... lets start with simple and work our way up lol.

An what difference with that make in this convo?

 

[Frood]

I'm having a hard time taking what someone who uses a squirrel with hanging testicles as an avatar says seriously. lol

You don't like acorns?