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[X]

@jack yoive had sex with a woman?

 

[The Question]

Becky takes after her mother. 6'5", built like a brick shithouse. I know that's not from my side of the family; we're all fuckin' hobbits.

 

[Jack]

mine are grown and gone. were visiting the grandkids in april or may

 

[X]

I’m the guy that cries all day wishing my mom was alive and my kids were small

 

[Jack]

lol @x ive been married 45 years.

 

[The Question]

All the dudes in Gina's family are about my size, all the women are fuckin' Amazons. It's freaky.

 

[X]

I e even crashed my bike because tears will spontaneously stream and I get these bad movies in my head

 

[Lily]

I hope the loss becomes easier to bear over time, X.

 

[The Question]

Not saying this out of meanness but from sincerity; have you considered therapy?

 

[X]

It’s like I’m useless now, as a man it’s very hard to take

 

[The Question]

Sincerely, it might help you to have somebody to talk to who can help you at a professional level.

 

[Lily]

The upside is that you had a good mom and miss her in your life. Not everyone feels that way.

 

[X]

Me don’t need therapy the grunt and move on

 

[X]

Men don’t need therapy the grunt and move on

 

[Jack]

When did she pass?

 

[The Question]

As long as you deal with the pain and work through it, then dismiss it. That's healthy. Burying it and leaving it festering... isn't.

 

[X]

I would say that I bury it, and clown on here

 

[Jack]

My mom passed a while back and I still miss her.

 

[Lily]

X talks about it here once in a while...he will be okay with time.

 

[X]

They left me alone with the heartbreaking responsibility and when it was over I told everyone exactly what losers they are and now they’ve destroyed my life

 

[Jack]

Safe space for that as far as I'm concerned

 

[Lily]

I miss my grandma and she lived to 94...

 

[The Question]

As long as you keep doing that, it's still gonna be there poisoning you, dude. Grieving is normal and healthy. But, on the premise that your mama loved you, she wouldn't want you to spend the rest of your life hurting. Right?

 

[Lily]

Who is "they", X? Your siblings?

 

[X]

It was a tumultuous relationship, difficult .. I’m struggling now with the unknowns

 

[X]

Siblings, pfft only because they came from the same vagina

 

[Jack]

I know how you feel

 

[The Question]

On an unrelated note: I hate the holidays. Everything closes, a man can't get any business done.

 

[X]

You guise are my siblings and @The Prowler is my rich uncle

 

[X]

I need a drink