April 18th, 2023, 11:50 am
The Iron Dink/Shen Li/Fashionista said:
"I was curious about the great white whale's latest antics, so I took a peek at the flame forum. I couldn't find what I was looking for, but I did find this:
I feel it nessesary to point out that while I'm separated and divorcing, I'm living with my male besty and getting intensely turned on by his cooking skills, writing skills, amazing sense of humor and his enduring care for my well being and devotion to it.
If I marry this guy the weekend after my divorce is final absolutely no one should be surprised lol. The 4th pancake is usually the winner for me.
I get it Dove, you are a turmoil-junkie mess of a woman. You''ll never change. However, why the fuck do you always have to share your latest self-inflicted wounds with a tiny group of strangers on an obscure forum. Nobody needs to be reminded again, again and again what a total fuck up you are . No normal person wants to know these details of your life either."
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As you can see Dove. Even one of your biggest supporters is tired of this great need to be in the center of the drama all the fucking time. Fashionista is echoing pretty much the same things I've been saying all along. Your real life must be shit because EVERYONE knows that your kind of out of body boasting is like King Martini saying that he "played you." When in reality you both were looking for love in the wrong place.
You have a habit of "residing" with a new man every 19 months. As Fashionista said, why do you think anyone wants to read your latest "fuck up" on a forum? How come you can't go and get proper counseling like the rest of the medicated fuckwits that can't make correct decisions in life? I'll tell you why. Because all these actions you take are premeditated, the intrinsic value goes up with shocking attention seeking behavior. For example:
I feel it nessesary to point out that while I'm separated and divorcing, I'm living with my male besty and getting intensely turned on by his cooking skills, writing skills, amazing sense of humor and his enduring care for my well being and devotion to it.
If I marry this guy the weekend after my divorce is final absolutely no one should be surprised lol. The 4th pancake is usually the winner for me.
Couple of questions. How come you felt it "nessesary" to come onto a public forum and without any kind of rhyme or reason you just blurt out that your 6th marriage is in shambles and now you're moving onto some guy who turns you on with his cooking skills? Who exactly asked you on either forum how your new "relationship" was going? Was there any mention of your loins stirring from your new partner's cooking? I mean if the guy makes a mean omelet, I can understand. What I can't "understand" is why you felt the need to come here and proclaim this very unroyal proclamation in dirty underwear.
Second question. Do you think you're fooling anyone? Like the old saying goes, those who brag about "having big dicks" and "Are happy going on their 312th relationship this year" are full of shit. You are and always have been full of crap. It wasn't until this very second that I now realize why we don't like each other. It's because you congregate with these people online and offline. I didn't realize how very serious you take these forums. The forums for me is a place for some good laughs and to read some excellent writing from time-to-time. I dont need to "know" everyone in passing. I don't need to meet any of these people offline and ruin what I constructed them to look like in my head. This is a place mostly made up of fantasy. Most of the people say things they can't/won't in their real lives, their personas are made up caricatures from their real world and are for entertainment value only. You're mixing in something that was never supposed to be joined at the hip.
I know you've probably had it rough. I'll never omit the fact I probably haven't gone through some of the horrid things you or anyone else here has gone through. And now you've got to face some of the same kind of mental abuse you were running from. See. The words on here have no power. The only power the words have are the one's you give it. With that being said, this will be my last correspondence to you. I dislike having to post to you soo very much that I'm just not going to do it anymore. It doesn't help you or me. I honestly feel sorry for you, and I don't say that as an insult. I understand what you want in this life because everyone wants that too. If not for circumstances beyond your control, I can see you being a Lawyer, Doctor or anything you wanted to be.
Goodbye Dove and good luck to you.
