All the pro choicers having a go at this girl for not putting on fake tears yet the outcome is just the same... Any woman upset about an abortion is only feeling self pity through guilt afterall can there be a more selfish act?
What can be a more selfish act? I'll tell you: Being a man who judges women about abortion. It's not your life. Keep your fuckin mouth shut.
Go into a pro choice group and start talking about nightmares, grief and suicidal thoughts after abortion.
Than come back and we can talk about judgement when you see first hand what post abortive suffering women get for opening up against the POLITICAL narrative and talking about how they REALLY feel.
As a woman you can say anything outside of "it was the right decision at the time" or about how you never had a doubt.
Go in there with real feelings and watch the fangs and claws come out.
I would take what Shamp said... that validating human observation that was not said with malice... over the unhinged verbal abuse I have endured for refusing to feel how abortion advocates try to force women to feel. They could be more judgemental, or invalidating.